'...CALLS FOR A TOTAL AND COMPLETE STOPPAGE OF CHILD CUSTODY LAW PROCEEDINGS IN AMERICA'S COURTROOMS UNTIL THIS COUNTRY'S REPRESENTATIVES CAN FIGURE OUT WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON' WHAT THIS PARENT WOULD SOUND LIKE IF SHE WERE DONALD J. TRUMP'S RUNNING MATE JUNE 30, 2016.

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We are not complaining, in this place, about a simple problem of discrimination against women in litigation. From this place, we are cautioning the public about a serious situation of maltreatment of women in litigation when these women are mothers.

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Barry Goldstein Interview 12 Sep 2010

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.......................................In most cases mothers are pathologized or demonized in order to create the appearance of a justification for the extreme actions taken. When the bad decisions backfire in a way that demonstrates even to the courts that the wrong decision was made, the defenders of the courts like to believe these cases constitute the exceptions to the usual good job done by courts. There is now a large body of research about these cases that show there are too many cases with extreme results and flawed practices to be conveniently dismissed as exceptions.” -Barry Goldstein in A Cancer Spreading in the Custody Court System on 16 Sep 2010

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..............................This is another reason why the Battered Mothers Custody Conference is so valuable. At least for that one weekend each year, we are among friends, we can speak the truth, the reality may not be pleasant but at least we can escape the pretend world of the courts and the abusers. It is important for protective mothers to know they are not alone. Other wonderful people are going through the same attacks and being pathologized by unqualified ‘experts.’” -Barry Goldstein in History of the Battered Mothers Custody Conference on 8 Dec 2010

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....... My profile? Intact. Fortunately my own dad was there to stop his fist. ....... Then the courts gave him our baby and finished me off.
PS - To those of you who might think I am nothing but an interfering, critical, histrionic nitwit, let me just say the Supreme Court of Virginia visits my Web site almost every day.

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Yes, Shivani, “sadly Brigitte Deel doesn’t have a facebook.” She has, however, a mother who loves her very much. This is not a secret neighbors at Belmont Country Club should be keeping from her, that is, if she is truly loved by them. I hope the community will lead my daughter to your facebook page.

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A mother won her "greatest fight" by refusing to submit to the judge who tried to abuse her. Click on her video, and as you scroll down my blog, listen for what this non-offending mother told that custody judge who played bully and lost. -Veronique Wyvell

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ADVISORY ... FAIRFAX COURTHOUSE SLAUGHTERHOUSE For Fit Mothers: Virginia judges say a father may hurt the mother of his child, by abusing her, without hurting his chances of gaining custody (mgbb). Judges surveyed for Influences on Judges' Decisions in Child Custody Disputes in the Commonwealth of Virginia further reveal that children over five go to fathers more than they go to mothers when cases go to court (pdf). Pages 4, 6, 7, 20, 21, 23, 24, 29, 30, 38, 39, 40, 41, 53, 55, and 57 in House Document No. 24, A 2001 Report of The Supreme Court of Virginia Office of The Executive Secretary to The Governor and The General Assembly of Virginia, are especially relevant to the current trend of awarding custody of children to fathers who are abusive, controlling, manipulative, violent men, narcissists, and sociopaths (oes). {According to a 1996 report by the Am. Psychological Assoc., fathers who batter mothers are twice as likely as non-violent men to seek sole custody of children (apa).}

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WARNING ... VIRGINIA COURTHOUSES SLAUGHTERHOUSES For Fit Mothers: In Virginia, rulings by custody judges may result in destitution (even bankruptcy) and childlessness for women who are fit mothers leaving an abusive man and escaping a violent relationship. “Custody transfers to abusive men are rare” and other myths as reported by the American Bar Association Commission on Domestic Violence (ABA Ten Myths, 2006), the Leadership Council on Child Abuse and Interpersonal Violence (LC Six Myths, 2006), and the National Council of Juvenile and Family Court Judges Family Violence Department (NCJFCJ Seven Myths, 2003) -- though still rumored by the public -- contribute to the butchering of fit mothers everyday by our state bench. All fit mothers hoping to preserve their resources and their parenthoods should understand those misconceptions now officially recognized -- though still rejected by the public -- about the well-studied connection between “intimate partner violence” and “child custody litigation” before entering any courtroom of our Commonwealth of Virginia. If you are a fit mother who was slaughtered by a state judge in a disputed case involving custody of a child you produced with an abusive and violent man, please join your sisters each fall in Richmond for JUDICIAL INTERVIEWS. {I will post 2010 event date, time, place and relevant vitals here by mid November, or parents may contact Mary Kate Felch directly. -Veronique W. on 10.5.10} ALL MAULED MOMS FROM ALL ACROSS VIRGINIA SHOULD PLAN TO BE IN HOUSE ROOM C OF THE GENERAL ASSEMBLY BUILDING IN DOWNTOWN RICHMOND FOR 'JUDICIAL INTERVIEWS OF INCUMBENTS 2010' ON DECEMBER 10 ALL DAY LONG (Starts at 8:30AM). {I will post here the link for the Felch Agenda & Interview Schedule. -V. Wyvell on 10.22.10} SCHEDULE FOR DEC. 2010 'JUDICIAL INTERVIEWS' NOW VIEWABLE BY CLICKING HERE. Your offending judge just might be up for re-appointment this year! Look for that judge's name in this list. If you have something to say about the performances of Judges Bonnie Davis, Gerald Daltan and Esther Wiggins-Lyles, please join your sisters in saying it. Sign up with Mary Kate Felch today! Several aggrieved moms are booked to speak already! MEETING INFO BY CLICKING HERE (Scroll Down to "12/10/10 8:30 a.m.").

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>>>>>>> 2008 SPEECH that took out Judge Finch & 2009 SPEECH that took down Judge Wiggins-Lyles.

>>>>>>>> YOUR VOICE CAN MATTER TOO IN DEC 2010!


>>>> No custody judge in Virginia should expect to get away with behaving like a bully. PERIOD.

>>>>>>>> A Citizen Flyer for mass distribution: HELP PROMOTE JII 2011.

A Washington Post article . . . Judge Go Bye Bye 2009 . . . please read it!

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Story by Tom Jackman,
NORTHERN VIRGINIA JUDGE CONFRONTED BY LOCAL MOMS OUSTED

A mother's testimony...took out a Fairfax County circuit judge. The same court had denied her motions to disqualify Zuckerman and remove him from her case.

Va. Judge Selection Process Criticized: Group Challenges Lack of Public Input >>> By Tom Jackman >>> Washington Post Staff Writer >>> Monday, March 2, 2009 >>> www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2009/03/01/AR2009030101882.html (www.box.com/s/y2dr45g485e3tm61nn0y)

Our carnivalesque judicial selection process, the clowning around starts here . . .

Our carnivalesque judicial selection process, the clowning around starts here . . .
House Room C of the General Assembly Building in Richmond, on December 10, 2010, in the moments before it would begin to fill eventually to near capacity with concerned citizens from all over Virginia; many came armed with speeches to oppose the re-appointment of incumbent judges to another term for this year’s “Judicial Interviews.” {Missed it Friday? Don’t fret, there’s always next year. Your offending judge just might be up for re-appointment in Dec. of 2011. So look for that judge’s name in this preliminary list (which is subject to change as judges advance to another court, retire, resign, die or are fired because people just like YOU got involved in this effort to remove unfit, corrupt or otherwise disabled judges), and if you see your judge listed, know that it's not too soon for you to begin to prepare for “Judicial Interviews of Incumbents 2011”: Richard Wallerstein, 7/1/2006-6/30/2012; Glenn Clayton, 10/1/2006-9/30/2012; Frank Somerville, 7/1/2006-6/30/2012; James Almand, 2/1/2004-1/31/2012… Continues on Facebook}

A circus, with our GA apt to certify sub-judges, circuit chiefs do a lot of the hiring

…How can this happen? Why do judges in Virginia issue court orders that can make an innocent-enough person feel like the victim of a “hate crime” when some sensibly administered justice would have sufficed? This can happen to people in Virginia because the judicial selection and re-selection process is deformed and has created a judiciary that is inbred which is producing even greater deformity as judicial rulings deteriorate and as judicial respect--for the dignity and the resources of litigants--decline.... ...Furthermore, I have noticed, when a judge advances to another court in mid-term, his or her interview is postponed, that is, delayed by the length of the term associated with that particular court (minus the number of years remaining in the old term): 6 years for district court, 8 for circuit, 8 for appeals and 12 for supreme. With the Judicial Performance Evaluation (JPE) program now cancelled by decision of the 2009 legislative session, “interviews,” known officially as “Judicial Interviews of Incumbents,” is the only screening mechanism in place, acting to protect citizen-consumers of legal services from defective judges. The event is annual and it really is Virginia’s ultimate oversight agency for the judiciary because even “Judicial Inquiry and Review Commission” board members must submit to “interviews.” But, and especially since most members of the general public do not go to “interviews,” it is mostly a “rubber-stamp affair.” Citizens, tragically, are skipping “interviews” because it is such a poorly promoted event, and sitting judges, apparently, are skipping “interviews” because jurists promoted before the end of their term slip through such a poorly designed system for screening them.... Our Carnivalesque Judicial Selection Process, read more, http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2009/05/referendumtime-dumb-disgusting-outright.html


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FOREWORD by Robin Yeamans, Esq. }find her on facebook

I never refer to a case as "high conflict." When you dig down to the bottom of a case labeled "high conflict," you find domestic violence and abuse. The two sides are not identically culpable. -R.Y.
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"If so, what does that relationship look like?" -Eric Holder*

"If so, what does that relationship look like?" -Eric Holder*
*Former judge on the Superior Court of the District of Columbia (Photograph clickable)

Commentary "A" by the APA Public Interest Directorate in a 1998 Report of the American Psychological Association Presidential Task Force On Violence And The Family on ISSUES AND DILEMMAS IN FAMILY VIOLENCE beginning WHEN PARENTS SEPARATE AFTER AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP, SHOULDN'T FATHERS HAVE AS MUCH RIGHT AS MOTHERS TO BE GRANTED PHYSICAL CUSTODY OF AND VISITATION RIGHTS WITH THEIR CHILDREN? and Commentary "B" by the American Judges Association in a 2002 Court Review Special Issue on DOMESTIC VIOLENCE beginning THE PARENTING OF MEN WHO BATTER

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Focus of January 2011 BMCC VIII will be to connect mothers

Focus of January 2011 BMCC VIII will be to connect mothers
Register online for Dr. Hannah's next conference by going to BatteredMothersCustodyConference.org (Click announcement)

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I personally receive calls, e-mails, and letters from protective mothers all over this country, as well as overseas, begging for help with their cases. The overriding theme is that their abusive ex-partner already has won or is about to "win" custody of their children. Ladies, think this could never happen to YOU? All you need to do is have a biological child with someone who is psychopathic, narcissistic, abusive, or otherwise sick enough to be willing--in his efforts to harm you--to cause massive harm to your child, as well. His task is simple enough; all he has to do is lie and manipulate the court system, making wild claims that you are a "fabricator," "crazy," "addicted," or an "alienator." He can then pay off all the court agents who are willing to do his bidding and take everything he says as the gospel truth, in exchange for his right to exercise power, control, and abuse over you and your kids until they reach majority age. The family court system, as it seems to currently operate, amounts to little more than a black market that gives children and babies to the highest bidder. The ONLY thing keeping this Potemkin village-like fiasco going in our family courts is the secrecy that cloaks the misdeeds. We need a deeply serious and impartial investigation of the family court systems of all 50 states, conducted by authorities with the will and the power to massively reform this corrupt machine. See http://www.batteredmotherscustodyconference.org/ for additional documentation about the family court fiasco. -Dr. Mo Therese Hannah, BMCC Chair and Protective Mothers Advocate, in public comment two years ago, in 2008

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Court appointees make profit by placing children in harm’s way. -Dr. Phil Show

Court appointees make profit by placing children in harm’s way. -Dr. Phil Show
Dr. Phil is now talking about it. If you missed the original airing of “Crisis in Family Court” on 14 April 2010, catch a rerun by checking his website regularly for its list of future shows. (“Crisis in Family Court” was repeated recently on August 14 and August 18; DVDs and transcripts can be ordered at DrPhil.com)

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Dr. Phil is looking for victims of “parental alienation” for an upcoming show: “Victim of Parental Alienation?” (“Do you believe that your ex-spouse, or soon-to-be ex-spouse, is preventing you from seeing your child? Do you believe that your ex is currently committing ‘parental alienation’ by making it very difficult OR preventing you from seeing your son or daughter? If you would like Dr. Phil’s help in mediating this issue and you’re also willing to appear on TV, please e-mail your story.”) Upcoming show topics also include: “Ex-Spouse Causing Your Child To Hate You?” (“Are you separated or recently divorced and you fear that your ex-spouse is alienating you from your child? Have you noticed a negative change in your child’s attitude and behavior towards you? Do you feel that your ex-spouse is the reason why your child is mistreating or ignoring you? If you would like Dr. Phil’s help in mediating this issue and you’re also willing to appear on TV, please e-mail your story.”) and “Who’s Right???” (“Is there a person in your life that blames you for everything? Do you want them to accept responsibility and end this blame game? Is someone in your life not admitting the harm they've caused you? Do they refuse to admit they are wrong? If so and YOU ARE WILLING TO APPEAR ON THE SHOW, tell us your story.”) -VW on 9.7.10

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Watch Kathleen Russell on Dr. Phil's "Crisis in Family Court"

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Q: What does the Zuckerman say? A: “Quack! Quack!”

Q: What does the Zuckerman say? A: “Quack! Quack!”
Court appointee William B. Zuckerman, Ph.D., telephoned a leader of the fathers’ rights group in Virginia and offered to help member fathers win custody. DR. ZUCKERMAN DIDN’T KNOW HE WAS TALKING TO MY FRIEND. William B. Zuckerman, Ph.D., never has telephoned a leader of the mothers’ rights movement in Virginia and never has offered to help member mothers gain custody. -Veronique Wyvell (Click pic)

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“Dear Miss: I came across your website when researching Dr. Zuckerman. As you can see from my signature below, I am an attorney. Opposing counsel is attempting to use Zuckerman to assist her client. I believe he is offering terrible advice which is hurting the family more than helping the situation…” ............ -A D.C. lawyer and professor of law at GW, in a spring 2010 message for Miss Veronique Wyvell

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Virginia judges have been forcing parents to watch SPARE THE CHILD since 2000 (video). The Virginia Supreme Court gave Dr. Zuckerman a lead role in the film (letter).

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Sandra Havrilak: She’ll spit on justice even if it means spitting on our children

Sandra Havrilak: She’ll spit on justice even if it means spitting on our children
Find “Support the Disbarment of Sandra Havrilak” on facebook and join the cause. ~Veronique Wyvell {Havrilak lies, Havrilak cheats, Havrilak steals: http://www.box.net/shared/4lv1tb8rz8 for “The Letters 5” (or click image) and http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2007/12/mark-e-rubin-senior-advisor-to-governor.html for “MARK E. RUBIN SENIOR ADVISOR TO THE GOVERNOR: ‘I can assure you that this information will be considered if Ms. Havrilak’s name comes up…’” (a response from Richmond)}

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Batterers, Barratry, Bedlam and Boycotts

}THE JUDGE AS BATTERER (NO WONDER THAT, MORE THAN EVER BEFORE, WOMEN IN DOMESTIC VIOLENCE CASES EVERYWHERE ARE ON THE RUN, BOLTING WITH THEIR CHILDREN, IN A GLOBAL BACKLASH AGAINST BARRATRY AND A WORLDWIDE BOYCOTT OF THE BENCH): A SAMPLING OF 25 YEARS OF SUPPORTING LITERATURE [Click book cover for an ever growing list of authorities on The Bedlam]

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Family courts, endangering children and punishing women

Family courts, endangering children and punishing women
Order online Dr. Hannah's new collection (with Mr. Goldstein) at CivicResearchInstitute.com

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Mother's Day 2010 at the White House

Peaceful Silent Vigil at The White House in Washington DC on 9 May 2010 Mother’s Day. "A cottage industry of mental health professionals and attorneys with cozy relationships with family court judges routinely bankrupt families with enormous court-ordered fees and often recommend that children be placed with their sexually or physically abusive fathers. Family court judges frequently ignore evidence of abuse, refuse to hear direct testimony from the children, and rubberstamp their cronies’ recommendations. Nurturing mothers are forced to pay costly fees to attend supervised visits with the children they raised, watching helplessly as their children continue to report abuse by their abusers to uncaring visitation monitors. Mothers who speak out about system failure often face judicial retaliation and lose what little time they have with their children. The unregulated cottage industry churns away, generating hundreds of thousands of dollars in fees to experts, while some of the worst cases settle only when the children turn 18. This is a national epidemic that is destroying families across America." (Photograph clickable)

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See the album at Facebook’s Center for Judicial Excellence: “Justice, Accountability, Children's Safety”

"Stop Court Crimes!"

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Sarah, in the 2005 PBS documentary Virginia is refusing to air*

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*"I'm, like, what kind of a person would take you away from your mom?" ... {Regarding little Sarah’s relegation to “day care”: Custody judges in Virginia routinely strip mostly stay-at-home mothers of their babies, toddlers, preschoolers and young children for commitment to full-time and year-long (summers included) placement in day care centers, that is, institutional care by total strangers, or for confinement with live-in and live-out nannies hired by abusive fathers; my own Brigitte was 2 when Judge Vieregg took her out of “mommy care” and gave her to a working couple and commercial care.} ~Veronique Wyvell~ Or, www.box.com/shared/ij7bvyuu7m

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The Custody Judge A "Key Abuse Collaborator"

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. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . J U S T I C E . . W A N T E D . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . My custody order is incoherent. With one document the judge relies on the report and recommendation of a court appointee and removes and replaces the court appointee, a forensic evaluator (the same Child-Sparing screwball and father-puppet that from a witness stand had barked "She doesn't blink! Most people blink!" in testimony on the impact of my eyelid movements on my mothering skills) refusing for 12 years to let me see my raw psychological test data. I'm seeking an attorney who will agree this circuit ruling is not logical and help me suspend/annul the order. I'm not asking for a trial, just a motion to restore the JDR decision of July 1999, our only true & valid order. Veronique Wyvell (tel 703.748.0072), from February 1999 to Oct. 2015, victim of judicial battery, parental persecution, gang rape, highway robbery and general bullshit in the courts of the Commonwealth of Virginia, County of "Fair-facts"

TROY DEEL HAS PROBLEMS NOT CUSTODY … MOTHER IS BRIGITTE’S LAWFUL PARENT

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No oversight, no accountability, no justice

No oversight, no accountability, no justice
"Fairfax County Circuit Court Judge Arthur B. Vieregg Unimpressed by Testimony of Preacher for United States Supreme Court Chief Justice William H. Rehnquist, My Boss the Reverend Dr. George W. Evans" is the title of one of my favorite mommy go bye bye blog postings. Justice Rehnquist attended Sunday services at the church that employed me. He liked our preacher. The preacher liked me. Judge Vieregg, however, didn't care much for either one of us.

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Mothers with a problematic legal case involving Vieregg, the circuit judge, and Zuckerman, the forensic psychologist, should contact me: The evidence has suggested Judge Arthur B. Vieregg and Dr. William B. Zuckerman may have owned real estate together or shared the same residential or mailing address; Vieregg appointed Zuckerman to conduct the Deel/Wyvell custody evaluation. The experience of your Mommy Go Bye Bye blogger has been that these two clowns are nothing more than, and her wish is for readers to take this quite literally, a couple of m----- f------ crooks. (Mr. Vieregg is now with McCammon.)

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THE IMPORTANT NUMBERS TO JUDGE VIEREGG AND DR. ZUCKERMAN HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH MY DAUGHTER’S AGE. Very early in Deel v. Wyvell the question would change from “Where’s the mistake?” to “Who’s making the most mistakes?” Vieregg sat for 3 big trials in 18 mos., in the matter of Brigitte, ages 2-3.

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How do we stop bad judges in Virginia? We start by clicking this poster

How do we stop bad judges in Virginia? We start by clicking this poster
This poster is linked to the community page on Facebook where citizens can retrieve a list naming the judges slated for re-appointment interviews in December 2011 and instructions for signing up to speak to stop the re-appointment of unfit and corrupt judges in Virginia: http://www.facebook.com/pages/Judicial-Interviews-of-Incumbents-2010-Richmond-Virginia/138253656230064. It depicts William B. Zuckerman, Ph.D., clinical psychologist (license no. 0810001150), child custody evaluator and known “paid whore” in the custody courts of the Commonwealth of Virginia. Dr. Zuckerman’s recommendations almost killed my 2-year-old because a judge (Arthur B. Vieregg) followed them. The judge retired in 2007. A FACEBOOK ACCOUNT IS NOT REQUIRED TO ACCESS THE JII COMMUNITY PAGE ON FACEBOOK.

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Name her team and win $100!

[Contest open 9.1.10] WIN $100! I want to offer the first individual who sends me an email containing the name of my daughter’s soccer team (fall 2010) a one hundred dollar bill. Collect your one hundred dollar bill simply by meeting me at her next game. Here she is pictured playing for the Loudoun Tigers All Stars last fall. This message was updated on September 1, 2010, by Veronique Wyvell

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"If you can give up a son, you can give back a daughter." -Miss Wyvell*

"If you can give up a son, you can give back a daughter." -Miss Wyvell*
*Click this photograph for the short story of Deel addiction to hate, jealousy, vengeance, rage, coercive control, manipulation and destruction of families (Next court date in CBOE case is August 19th in Leesburg)

Why won't they let my daughter go?

___________________________________ While in her mid-twenties, Lisa Ferry abandons her baby son in a catholic convent. While in his mid-thirties, Troy Deel abandons his baby son in an adoption scam. They terminate their parental rights to firstborns. Now both in their fifties, Troy and Lisa Deel are obsessed with forcing me out of the life of my child. Why won't they let my daughter go? ~Veronique Wyvell, mother of Brigitte, young victim of lawsuit abuse and foul play in the custody courts of Virginia (or ... The Deels think it’s ok to push custody papers that are not in order … They could be pushing their luck instead)

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Litigation as Psycho-Therapy, Litigation as Murder-Substitute

Litigation as Psycho-Therapy, Litigation as Murder-Substitute
‘WARDING OFF PSYCHIC COLLAPSE’ and ‘HOLDING OFF HATEFUL AND MURDEROUS WISHES’ with CUSTODY WARS: Ethicist and author Michael B. Donner PhD believes, in “tearing the child apart,” lawsuit abusing “parents remain both victim and victimizers in their own internal struggle.” (I believe Dr. Donner is one who “gets it,” and the bad custody judge is one who “looks the other way.” -Veronique Wyvell RN) Photograph clickable

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“The reality is that the ‘Good Dads’ settle these matters amicably.” -CP*

“The reality is that the ‘Good Dads’ settle these matters amicably.” -CP*
*Commentary by Charles Pragnell in “Sociopath Fathers : The ‘Charming’ Killers” ending with “It is to be hoped that society and Courts are able to more easily identify such sociopaths in the future and thereby provide the necessary protections for children and their mothers.” (Photograph clickable)

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A court ruling that contradicts the facts of the case . . .

A court ruling that contradicts the facts of the case . . .
...and recognizes eye-blinking as a relevant measurement of fitness to parent.

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Domestic Violence by Proxy: Why Terrorist Tactics Employed by Batterers Are Not "PAS" ... ~ The Leadership Council on Child Abuse & Interpersonal Violence 2009 ~

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“troy deel monster”*

“troy deel monster”*
*Search words googled by a visitor of this blog from IP address 75.75.106 on 22 June 2010

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Batterers such as Troy Deel are unlikely to share parenting*

Batterers such as Troy Deel are unlikely to share parenting*
*http://www.leadershipcouncil.org/docs/Truth_Commission_2007.pdf (Page 6/14)

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GOOD DADS DON’T ACT LIKE TROY DEEL

GOOD DADS DON’T ACT LIKE TROY DEEL
Brigitte and Mom on 14 July 2010 at the Rivercrest Swim Meet

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GOOD DADS DON’T ACT LIKE TROY DEEL Haunted by the truth this chronic trespasser on my motherhood says he will sue in email without subject, without substance Email #1 / Email #2 / Email #3 / Email #4 / Email #5 / Email #6 / Attachments, Aunt Dots

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Photo taken by mom, daughter taken by dad

Photo taken by mom, daughter taken by dad
“Brigitte has a mother who loves her very much,” and after six years of separation, I have a daughter who still loves me, much to the dismay of her disturbed father, Troy Deel. ~Veronique Wyvell on 11.11.2010

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An earlier life in pictures from a collection I call "My Pocketbook Album" . . .

An earlier life in pictures from a collection I call "My Pocketbook Album" . . .
…The album I regret was missing from my purse on July 14. It usually travels with me, in my purse, on days I go looking for Brigitte. So, Brigitte, if you are reading, click the picture above of us together for your 6th birthday to see “My Pocketbook Album” in pdf since I goofed up and forgot it when I left the house for Rivercrest that day I finally found you. I have many more photos I want to show you of your early life with your mother who has never, never stopped loving you. ~Posted by Veronique Wyvell on 18 Nov. 2010

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Pretend Phone, Pretend Mommy . . .

Pretend Phone, Pretend Mommy . . .
Troy Deel: “Rest assured, I will not be putting Brigitte in the middle of this in the future.” [Father of Brigitte, in a fax to her mother, Oct. 27, 2003]

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Troy Deel used this device to give his women pleasure . . .

Troy Deel used this device to give his women pleasure . . .
...The night I found him using it for the third time on my 15-month-old was our last together under his roof, yet my preference for iced chocolate milk would make me a pervert. The one food item my pregnant body did not reject by vomiting in eight months of hyperemesis gravidarum (complicated by potentially fatal preeclampsia) was labeled “a fetish” by Dr. William Zuckerman in his custody report. Zuckerman’s report would contain no discussion of the vibrator. See transcript of Deel testimony. -VW (Photograph clickable)

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Mother's savings -- not father's salary -- support baby Brigitte (We lived together) . . .

Mother's savings -- not father's salary -- support baby Brigitte (We lived together) . . .
…Dr. Zuckerman would also skip the subject of money in his $16,444.00 custody evaluation of the Deel-Wyvell (no marriage but we lived together) family. See transcript of Deel testimony. -VW (Image clickable)

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"If you're such a great father, why aren't you taking care of your son?" VW

"If you're such a great father, why aren't you taking care of your son?" VW
{Item #26} “Dr. Zuckerman overlooked the parent/child (often mother/child) separation issues and child abandonment issues which pervaded this case and were fundamental to an understanding of the conflict. The separation and abandonment themes are shockingly rampant in the recent history of this family: Troy Deel’s birthmother’s abandonment of him as a newborn when she left him on a stranger’s porch and their subsequent estrangement; Jackie Decker’s abandonment of her foster son and their subsequent estrangement, her foster son is Troy Deel; Troy Deel’s abandonment of his baby son (by Camen Shimer) and their subsequent estrangement; Carmen Shimer’s “kidnapping” of Troy Deel’s baby son and their subsequent estrangement from Troy Deel; Carmen Shimer’s father’s kidnapping of her from her mother and Carmen’s subsequent estrangement from her father (Carmen was reunited with her mother after 5 years of separation); finally, Lisa Ferry’s (Troy Deel’s current wife) abandonment of her newborn son in a convent after hiding there for the duration of her pregnancy and their subsequent estrangement. Dr. Zuckerman could not have been more negligent in his duty as a trained and experienced psychologist to identify and address unresolved conflict and to stop the monster that so much accumulated resentment has become as evidenced by the father’s obsessive drive to obliterate through litigation the mother (Veronique Wyvell) from their own daughter’s life. After all, the work of psychology is to explore human issues.” Item #26 above and Item #11 below were taken from the “Veronique Wyvell 34-Point/6-Page Official Statement of Heinous Behaviors and Atrocious Actions by Court Appointed Psychological Evaluator William Zuckerman in Troy Deel v. Veronique Wyvell, a Child Custody Evaluation” compiled on February 10, 2002 (and on file with VW). {Item #11} “At the time of the evaluation, Dr. Zuckerman’s daughters were refusing to speak with him because they sided with their mother whom he was divorcing. His troubled personal life should have ethically precluded him from evaluating custody disputes for others.”

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Troy Deel and court reporter scheme to sell Veronique rigged records . . .

Troy Deel and court reporter scheme to sell Veronique rigged records . . .
…Dastardly dad Troy Deel maintains a DOD/DSS Top Secret Level Personnel Security Clearance despite the premise that “[w]hen an individual’s life history shows evidence of unreliability or untrustworthiness, questions arise whether the individual can be relied on and trusted to exercise the responsibility necessary for working in a secure environment where protection of classified information is paramount,” however, clinical psychologist and forensic evaluator William Zuckerman would disregard all of my information and evidence in reference to Deel’s doctored court records by omitting every bit of that information and evidence from his custody report (http://www.dss.mil/disco/ps_faqs.html is source of quoted text). See transcript of Wyvell testimony and Wyvell letter to the head of the Court Reporters Association. -VW

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Troy Deel Sails Under False Colors

Troy Deel Sails Under False Colors
By order of the JDR court, I had full physical custody of Brigitte when Troy Deel registered her at Winwood; he had incomplete legal custody only. It is time for Troy “I’LL DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO GET WHAT I WANT!” Deel to stop impersonating ME, Brigitte’s Right and Proper parent since the Fair and Square Judge Carr decision of May 1999, by pushing for all to see custody papers that are not in order, or maybe it is time for Troy “I’LL DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO GET WHAT I WANT!” Deel to start moving to confirm the Incoherent, Unintelligible, Repugnant, and Completely Fraudulent Judge Vieregg decision of Nov. 2001. ~The devoted mother of a young victim of lawsuit abuse & foul play in the custody courts of Virginia~

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He never wanted me to have her. He wanted me to never know her. ~VW

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Batterers, Barratry, Bedlam and Boycotts

}THE JUDGE AS BATTERER (NO WONDER THAT, MORE THAN EVER BEFORE, WOMEN IN DOMESTIC VIOLENCE CASES EVERYWHERE ARE ON THE RUN, BOLTING WITH THEIR CHILDREN, IN A GLOBAL BACKLASH AGAINST BARRATRY AND A WORLDWIDE BOYCOTT OF THE BENCH): A SAMPLING OF 25 YEARS OF SUPPORTING LITERATURE [Click book cover for an ever growing list of authorities on The Bedlam]

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Available April 2010

“Women trapped in relationships with abusers come to expect horrendous misbehavior from their partners. What they cannot fathom is the maddening reinforcement commonly provided to abusive men by the justice system and the public at large. . . . That key abuse collaborator is the custody judge. Of all of the actors in a battered woman’s life, none wield more power over her children and financial future. It is beyond infuriating when women discover that their custody judges lack understanding of DV and are colluding with abusers to take away women’s financial resources and, even worse, their children.” --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- An excerpt from Why Do Judges Do That? by Judge Mike Brigner --------- in DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, ABUSE, AND CHILD CUSTODY Legal Strategies and Policy Issues by Editors Mo Therese Hannah PhD and Barry Goldstein JD* -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Order Now

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*Family courts, endangering children and punishing women

*Family courts, endangering children and punishing women
Order online Dr. Hannah's new collection by going to CivicResearchInstitute.com (Click image)

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“There is a crisis in the custody court system, which has resulted in thousands of children being sent to live with abusers while safe, protective parents, primarily mothers, are denied any meaningful relationship with their children. The court system has failed to respond appropriately to domestic violence and child abuse cases involving custody. The Commission found many common errors made by the courts and the professionals they rely upon which contribute to these tragedies.”

“The common theme that emerged from the testimony is that there is a widespread problem of abusive parents being granted custody of children and protective parents having their custody limited or denied, and/or being otherwise punished.”

“The situation of family courts endangering children and punishing women must be exposed in the media. State and national policymakers in all three branches of government and other allies must be advised of the problem of family courts placing children in the unsupervised custody of abusive parents, and be told that this is happening with alarming frequency.”

-Dr. Mo Therese Hannah, BMCC Chair and Truth Commission Coordinator, in report findings/solutions four years ago, in 2007

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Remember them in November

Click poster for Marsden Mute (nor did I ever hear back from Senators Howell and Cuccinelli and Delegate Valentine). -Veronique, Mother of Brigitte VIRGINIANS for the REPEAL of the 'BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILD' STANDARD

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June 29, 2016

To Troy Deel: You crossed the line 18 years ago so I can't say your recent behavior crosses the line. I will say, seriously, you need to be locked up...

You just won't quit and my middle name isn't Complacency, so you've got your website back, renamed and all.

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June 28, 2016

DEAR BRIGITTE YOU ARE NO MAN'S PROPERTY...

Dear Brigitte, You are no man's property! 1916 happened 100 years ago. A woman in her 19th year has rights and rights that are equal. Without your consent a man's hand stays away from your skin, without your consent a man's hand stays away from your mail, without your consent a man's hand stays away from your cash. (If your father wants your money, your father can charge you rent, and you can hand your father your cheque.) If any man physically or verbally lashes out at you because BRIGITTE'S 2016 RULES don't suit him then YOU LEAVE, YOU JUST LEAVE. My own mother, your French grandmother, was alone in the big city at 18 (in 1954!) and did JUST FINE. She found a great career she excelled in and a wonderful man who RESPECTED HER until the day he died--even after a divorce--found her! Love, Mom.

Dear Brigitte it's normal for you to feel love for your father...

Dear Brigitte, It's normal for you to feel love for your father. It's abnormal for your father to respond by seeking to brainwash you with the belief your mother is someone you must fear. That's called exploitation and manipulation. Your mother is not damaged, defective, depressed, and dangerous as Troy Deel likes to broadcast. Furthermore, your mother happens to like how she is. I like how I am, Brigitte. I feel very comfortable in my skin and that's a very healthy way to feel while going about living life. I feel so comfortable in my skin that I can say I don't hate your father who will never stop being mean to us (even if I delete this website, I tried that too). I guess that makes you and me a little bit alike. Not alike because my situation is safe, your's unsafe. Love, Mom.

June 27, 2016

IF YOU WANT TO END UP LIKE STEPMOTHER LISA THEN STAY

Your mother's side of the family is not known for mincing words Brigitte so here goes IF YOU WANT TO END UP LIKE YOUR STEPMOTHER LISA THEN STAY.

NEED PRIVACY BRIGITTE? Feel free to use your new address at mom's for all your business official and personal...

NEED PRIVACY BRIGITTE? Feel free to use your new address at mom's for all your business official and personal because (A) never once in my entire life have I ever opened someone else's mail without first obtaining their permission to do so and that's not about to change and (B) my address is your address and that's unconditional. Your messages for me are also safe at 703-357-0911. Love Mom.

Yo B! You're lucky when your father threatens LEAVE NOW AND I'LL NEVER LET YOU BACK IN MY HOUSE AGAIN! because you get to jump for joy and say YIPPEE!...

Yo B, you're lucky when your father threatens LEAVE NOW AND I'LL NEVER LET YOU BACK IN MY HOUSE AGAIN! because you get to jump for joy and say YIPPEE! Miss you Brigitte. Mother.

June 26, 2016

For you dear daughter I will live in a gutter if living in a gutter is required to give you everything you need and want...

For you, dear daughter, I will live in a gutter if living in a gutter is required to give you everything you need and want. When you hightail it out of there because his fat fist and foul mouth are within inches of your pretty face and you finally feel totally and completely FED UP, your father will refuse to give you anything that you leave behind. (He forced you and me to sleep on floors for weeks by not allowing us to have back my mattress set which had been moved into his spare room the year before--you were just 1--a judge intervened but only after tons of money was wasted on lawyers, T.D.'s M.O. over all these years.) So plan carefully and discreetly; you might store things important to you in the home of a trusted friend (dad will be searching purse and closet and car). You know how he already constantly threatens to take away from you everything you cherish most if you don't follow HIS CRUEL RULES. No rules here where life is very comfortable for me, you would decompress beautifully here sweetie. Typically a few degrees cooler than for you, with a pleasant breeze that comes and goes. Not fancy necessarily but always comfortable and dependably peaceful 24/7! Much love, you can't even begin to imagine, Your Mother.

For My Daughter Do You Know Your 'Aunt' Sandi Told The Judge Your Mom Is A Good Mother?...

Do you know that your dad's 'sister,' your 'Aunt' Sandi, told the judge that your mom is a good mother? I bet you don't know this Brigitte. Love mom.

June 25, 2016

Please Brigitte consider taking charge of your personal finances...

Please, Brigitte, consider taking charge of your personal finances by putting all of your money in your name and your name only because the longer your money stays mixed up in with marital funds the greater the risk becomes that you will never see your money again, some harmless advice from your mother.

Your mom only wishes to see you free so will help set you free

Good morning Brigitte we should talk soon about the money you need to begin the life you want that is if the life you want is different from the life Troy Deel wants for you. With love your mom who only wishes to see you free so will help set you free.

June 24, 2016

BRIGITTE YOUR MONEY IS CONTROLLED BY YOU EXCLUSIVELY IF EXCLUSIVE CONTROL OF YOUR MONEY IS WHAT YOU NOW WANT...

BRIGITTE YOUR MONEY IS CONTROLLED BY YOU EXCLUSIVELY IF EXCLUSIVE CONTROL OF YOUR MONEY IS WHAT YOU NOW WANT DON'T BE AFRAID TO SAY BUTT OUT DAD LET ME KNOW ABOUT CONTINUED PROBLEMS IN THIS DEPARTMENT TOO YOU HAVE MY FULL SUPPORT IN ALL THAT YOU DECIDE OBVIOUSLY YOUR FATHER STILL HAS HIS BAD HABIT OF COMMITTING FORGERY SO HE MIGHT BE MAKING DECISIONS IN YOUR PLACE ABOUT YOUR MONEY WITHOUT YOUR KNOWLEDGE SIMPLY BY FORGING YOUR SIGNATURE MOM

'AUNT' SANDI IN INDIANA YOU STILL OUT THERE NO WOMAN FORGETS LIFE UNDER THE SAME ROOF WITH YOUR 'BROTHER' TROY DEEL...

'AUNT' SANDI IN INDIANA YOU STILL OUT THERE NO WOMAN FORGETS LIFE UNDER THE SAME ROOF WITH YOUR 'BROTHER' TROY DEEL JUST HOW MANY MORE YEARS WILL YOU WAIT TO TELL YOUR 'NIECE' GOOD DADS DON'T ACT LIKE TROY DEEL DEAD PEOPLE CAN'T HEAR

June 23, 2016

Hi Brigitte When you need a safe place to be or just want some company call 703.357.0911 in Ashburn and I will come get you or we could meet somewhere...

Hi Brigitte,
When you need a safe place to be or just want some company call 703.357.0911 in Ashburn and I will come get you or we could meet somewhere. You are truly free to do as you please Brigitte since all of your father's court orders which he sought because he finds it necessary to keep you and me apart expired on your 18th birthday!
I guarantee HIS CRUEL RULES don't stand a chance in front of a policeman nor a judge. A mother is a very important person, all decent people agree. Did you know your father acted cruelly by controlling our access to my own mom and my own dad? Before he ever sought court orders (you were a tiny baby then) he thought he could force me to follow HIS CRUEL RULES too because I lived in HIS DUMB HOUSE.
I ran (back to my house, I had my own pretty house, I didn't his dumb house).
Your father can pay for your housing, your food, your doctor, your car, your schooling but all of that paying does not entitle your father to order you based on HIS CRUEL RULES to stay away from your mother if seeing her is your desire.
Your father becomes a Perpetrator of Domestic Violence when he acts to control your access to me if access to me is something you want because all decent people agree a mother is a very important person; a mother is not a very important person to people who are delusional.
Who doesn't know that delusional people are prone to violence with others and even pose a danger to themselves?
So Brigitte run if you feel like running!
With love, Mom who ran!
P.S. There is so much life still left for us to enjoy together! Why not come to France with me this summer?! Let's go have some fun for a change! Time for Mr. Deel to TAKE A HIKE!

June 22, 2016

Dear Brigitte Only fresh clean air and good drinking water to worry about...

Dear Brigitte Only fresh clean air and good drinking water to worry about at 500 feet where I live near mountains and pretty nature Give some serious thought to hopping into your little car for a visit Would you Love Mom

P S When he uses his physical body to barricade you in the house by blocking exits with his arms and legs out and extended while screaming verbal threats at you as you try to leave that's called domestic violence You must make contact with police quickly and somehow I say somehow because I understand he'll whip the phone out of your hands and strip you of all other means of communication Lisa becomes a perpetrator of DV too when she fails to call law enforcement on your behalf Do not put up with their crap any longer You run if you feel like running Your loving mother has got your back

TROY DEEL CALLS THE WOMEN UNDER HIS ROOF NO-NOTHINGS FUCKING ASSES AND FUCKING BITCHES...

TROY DEEL CALLS THE WOMEN UNDER HIS ROOF NO-NOTHINGS FUCKING ASSES AND FUCKING BITCHES HE TELLS THE WOMEN UNDER HIS ROOF SHUT UP PISS OFF GO TO HELL GET YOUR SHIT OUT OF HERE YOU'RE LUCKY I STILL WANT YOU TROY DEEL IS LUCKY BECAUSE THE INOVA LOUDOUN ADULT MENTAL HEALTH CORNWALL CAMPUS HAS A VACANCY AND IS SO CLOSE HE COULD HIKE THERE

TROY DEEL ONLY COWARDS LIKE YOU USE CHILDREN AS CRUTCHES...

TROY DEEL ONLY COWARDS LIKE YOU USE CHILDREN AS CRUTCHES GO FIND YOUR MIND BECAUSE CLEARLY YOU'VE LOST IT BRIGITTE THE NEXT TIME HE TELLS YOU TO SHUT YOUR TRAP WHY NOT REMIND HIM HE CAN TAKE A HIKE MOM

Dear Brigitte almost 19 and free the next time his fat mouth again threatens THIS IS MY HOUSE...

DEAR BRIGITTE ALMOST 19 AND FREE THE NEXT TIME HIS FAT MOUTH AGAIN THREATENS THIS IS MY HOUSE YOU LIVE IN MY HOUSE YOU DO AS I SAY REMEMBER YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN BAD REMEMBER THE LAW HAS FINALLY SET YOU FREE REMEMBER YOUR PEACE-SEEKING MOTHER CLOSE BY WHO LOVES YOU REMEMBER HER HOUSE IS YOUR HOUSE RUN TO IT IF YOU FEEL LIKE RUNNING THE POLICE CAN SHARE MY LOCATION IF SCHOOL ADMINISTRATORS REFUSE TO HELP MOM

August 06, 2012

Attn Ashburn Pediatrics (Dr. Amie Beloy, Dr. Maura Carroll, Dr. Jane Curry, Dr. Theresa Crowley, Dr. Victoria Pierce, Dr. Michele Reilly, Dr. Jyotsna Shah, Katie Geaneas, Susan Weiner, Kelly Wellstead), 20955 Professional Plaza, Suite 200, Ashburn, Virginia 20147: TROY DEEL HAS PROBLEMS NOT CUSTODY...MOTHER IS BRIGITTE'S LAWFUL PARENT...STOP YOUR WRONGFUL 'DOCTORING' (TEACHING, COACHING, PREACHING) OF MY DAUGHTER AT ONCE!



Attn Edgar B. Hatrick, Superintendent, Loudoun County Public Schools, 21000 Education Court, Ashburn, Virginia 20148: TROY DEEL HAS PROBLEMS NOT CUSTODY...MOTHER IS BRIGITTE'S LAWFUL PARENT...STOP YOUR WRONGFUL TEACHING (COACHING, PREACHING, 'DOCTORING') OF MY DAUGHTER AT ONCE!



Attn Dave Edwards, Director, STAR Performance, 22062 Avonworth Square, Broadlands, Virginia 20148: TROY DEEL HAS PROBLEMS NOT CUSTODY...MOTHER IS BRIGITTE'S LAWFUL PARENT...STOP YOUR WRONGFUL COACHING (TEACHING, PREACHING, 'DOCTORING') OF MY DAUGHTER AT ONCE!



Attn Todd D. Sheller, President, The Belmont Sharks Board of Directors, 20071 Medalist Drive, Ashburn, Virginia 20147: TROY DEEL HAS PROBLEMS NOT CUSTODY...MOTHER IS BRIGITTE'S LAWFUL PARENT...STOP YOUR WRONGFUL COACHING (TEACHING, PREACHING, 'DOCTORING') OF MY DAUGHTER AT ONCE!



Attn Charlie & Jill Whitlow, Lead Pastors, Community Church, 19790 Ashburn Road, Ashburn, Virginia 20147: TROY DEEL HAS PROBLEMS NOT CUSTODY...MOTHER IS BRIGITTE'S LAWFUL PARENT...STOP YOUR WRONGFUL PREACHING (TEACHING, COACHING, 'DOCTORING') OF MY DAUGHTER AT ONCE!



April 26, 2012

DR. BRIAN WALD IS A PARAPHILIAC Sexually perverse child custody evaluator and parenting coordinator in Virginia Beach was stripped of his license to practice psychology this April

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Brian Wald, PhD
Forensic Child Expert
Pervert and Crook
 
Here's the document on Wald many of you are searching for.

Some readers -- especially those of you who are "protective mothers" in disputed cases opposite an abuser -- might be interested in the other post on my blog exposing child custody evaluator and family expert Brian Wald back in 2009: http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2009/08/beware-of-brian-wald-paid-hired.html for "Beware of Brian Wald..."

Mommy Go Bye Bye has tracked Zoll too. Dr. David Zoll is also of Tidewater, and like Wald, he lost his own license to practice psychology not long ago.

And like Wald, Zoll did family evaluations for the Virginia courts.

Click pic to read how Wald was bought by an abuser.

~VW

March 11, 2012

ANN WOOD MISCHE AVOID AT ALL COST! She tricks moms who hire her by feeding them to promoter of custody OF LITTLE GIRLS for abusive dads, Dr. Zuckerman

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Mothers must discontinue their use of Ann Wood Mische immediately. This defective, dangerous, and deceitful divorce lawyer operates out of Fairfax and now Charlottesville, in Virginia.

The Mische 'MO' is to betray the mother she represents by putting Dr. William "Bill" Zuckerman on the legal case. He is the equally defective, dangerous, and deceitful child custody evaluator mentioned throughout the Mommy Go Bye Bye blog.

Zuckerman also should be avoided at all cost.

Mische -- a notorious "frequent-filer" on the Fairfax County Circuit Court Friday Motions Docket -- and Zuckerman have established a pattern of collaborating on the removal of little girls from the care of loving and involved mothers with transfer of custody to abusive, violent, narcissistic or otherwise sick fathers. [FN1]

The mission of “M & Z, Inc.” is to turn you, mom who is fit, into its next cash cow.

Find just one example of Mische and Zuckerman chicanery at the Mommy Go Bye Bye blog post here: http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2007/04/in-virginia-child-custody-evaluators.html. [FN2]

Mothers should not be quick to ignore and dismiss the information shared on my blog in reference to William Zuckerman, Ph.D., known paid whore by the good judges on the Fairfax County bench. To throw Mische into the mix spells disaster for little girls and their mothers.

~VW

[ FN1 ] WHAT ONE 'PRETEND MOMMY' IS DOING ABOUT MAKE-BELIEVE MOTIONS AND THE PETTIFOGGING SHYSTERS WHO DREAM THEM UP: Barratry of no benefit to our children

[ FN2 ] VIRGINIA CHILD CUSTODY EVALUATOR PLAYS JUDGE ...introducing william bill zuckerman phd and the machinations of a justice system that protects him