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We are not complaining, in this place, about a simple problem of discrimination against women in litigation. From this place, we are cautioning the public about a serious situation of maltreatment of women in litigation when these women are mothers. ~Veronique W.

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Barry Goldstein Interview 12 Sep 2010

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.......................................In most cases mothers are pathologized or demonized in order to create the appearance of a justification for the extreme actions taken. When the bad decisions backfire in a way that demonstrates even to the courts that the wrong decision was made, the defenders of the courts like to believe these cases constitute the exceptions to the usual good job done by courts. There is now a large body of research about these cases that show there are too many cases with extreme results and flawed practices to be conveniently dismissed as exceptions.” -Barry Goldstein in A Cancer Spreading in the Custody Court System on 16 Sep 2010

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..............................This is another reason why the Battered Mothers Custody Conference is so valuable. At least for that one weekend each year, we are among friends, we can speak the truth, the reality may not be pleasant but at least we can escape the pretend world of the courts and the abusers. It is important for protective mothers to know they are not alone. Other wonderful people are going through the same attacks and being pathologized by unqualified ‘experts.’” -Barry Goldstein in History of the Battered Mothers Custody Conference on 8 Dec 2010

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....... My profile? Intact. Fortunately my own dad was there to stop his fist. ....... Then the courts gave him our baby and finished me off.
PS - To those of you who might think I am nothing but an interfering, critical, histrionic nitwit, let me just say the Supreme Court of Virginia visits my Web site almost every day.

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Yes, Shivani, “sadly Brigitte Deel doesn’t have a facebook.” She has, however, a mother who loves her very much. This is not a secret neighbors at Belmont Country Club should be keeping from her, that is, if she is truly loved by them. I hope the community will lead my daughter to your facebook page.

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A mother won her "greatest fight" by refusing to submit to the judge who tried to abuse her. Click on her video, and as you scroll down my blog, listen for what this non-offending mother told that custody judge who played bully and lost. -Veronique Wyvell

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ADVISORY ... FAIRFAX COURTHOUSE SLAUGHTERHOUSE For Fit Mothers: Virginia judges say a father may hurt the mother of his child, by abusing her, without hurting his chances of gaining custody (mgbb). Judges surveyed for Influences on Judges' Decisions in Child Custody Disputes in the Commonwealth of Virginia further reveal that children over five go to fathers more than they go to mothers when cases go to court (pdf). Pages 4, 6, 7, 20, 21, 23, 24, 29, 30, 38, 39, 40, 41, 53, 55, and 57 in House Document No. 24, A 2001 Report of The Supreme Court of Virginia Office of The Executive Secretary to The Governor and The General Assembly of Virginia, are especially relevant to the current trend of awarding custody of children to fathers who are abusive, controlling, manipulative, violent men, narcissists, and sociopaths (oes). {According to a 1996 report by the Am. Psychological Assoc., fathers who batter mothers are twice as likely as non-violent men to seek sole custody of children (apa).}

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WARNING ... VIRGINIA COURTHOUSES SLAUGHTERHOUSES For Fit Mothers: In Virginia, rulings by custody judges may result in destitution (even bankruptcy) and childlessness for women who are fit mothers leaving an abusive man and escaping a violent relationship. “Custody transfers to abusive men are rare” and other myths as reported by the American Bar Association Commission on Domestic Violence (ABA Ten Myths, 2006), the Leadership Council on Child Abuse and Interpersonal Violence (LC Six Myths, 2006), and the National Council of Juvenile and Family Court Judges Family Violence Department (NCJFCJ Seven Myths, 2003) -- though still rumored by the public -- contribute to the butchering of fit mothers everyday by our state bench. All fit mothers hoping to preserve their resources and their parenthoods should understand those misconceptions now officially recognized -- though still rejected by the public -- about the well-studied connection between “intimate partner violence” and “child custody litigation” before entering any courtroom of our Commonwealth of Virginia. If you are a fit mother who was slaughtered by a state judge in a disputed case involving custody of a child you produced with an abusive and violent man, please join your sisters each fall in Richmond for JUDICIAL INTERVIEWS. {I will post 2010 event date, time, place and relevant vitals here by mid November, or parents may contact Mary Kate Felch directly. -Veronique W. on 10.5.10} ALL MAULED MOMS FROM ALL ACROSS VIRGINIA SHOULD PLAN TO BE IN HOUSE ROOM C OF THE GENERAL ASSEMBLY BUILDING IN DOWNTOWN RICHMOND FOR 'JUDICIAL INTERVIEWS OF INCUMBENTS 2010' ON DECEMBER 10 ALL DAY LONG (Starts at 8:30AM). {I will post here the link for the Felch Agenda & Interview Schedule. -V. Wyvell on 10.22.10} SCHEDULE FOR DEC. 2010 'JUDICIAL INTERVIEWS' NOW VIEWABLE BY CLICKING HERE. Your offending judge just might be up for re-appointment this year! Look for that judge's name in this list. If you have something to say about the performances of Judges Bonnie Davis, Gerald Daltan and Esther Wiggins-Lyles, please join your sisters in saying it. Sign up with Mary Kate Felch today! Several aggrieved moms are booked to speak already! MEETING INFO BY CLICKING HERE (Scroll Down to "12/10/10 8:30 a.m.").

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>>>>>>> 2008 SPEECH that took out Judge Finch & 2009 SPEECH that took down Judge Wiggins-Lyles.

>>>>>>>> YOUR VOICE CAN MATTER TOO IN DEC 2010!


>>>> No custody judge in Virginia should expect to get away with behaving like a bully. PERIOD.

>>>>>>>> A Citizen Flyer for mass distribution: HELP PROMOTE JII 2011.

A Washington Post article . . . Judge Go Bye Bye 2009 . . . please read it!

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Story by Tom Jackman,
NORTHERN VIRGINIA JUDGE CONFRONTED BY LOCAL MOMS OUSTED

A mother's testimony...took out a Fairfax County circuit judge. The same court had denied her motions to disqualify Zuckerman and remove him from her case.

Va. Judge Selection Process Criticized: Group Challenges Lack of Public Input >>> By Tom Jackman >>> Washington Post Staff Writer >>> Monday, March 2, 2009 >>> www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2009/03/01/AR2009030101882.html (www.box.com/s/y2dr45g485e3tm61nn0y)

Our carnivalesque judicial selection process, the clowning around starts here . . .

Our carnivalesque judicial selection process, the clowning around starts here . . .
House Room C of the General Assembly Building in Richmond, on December 10, 2010, in the moments before it would begin to fill eventually to near capacity with concerned citizens from all over Virginia; many came armed with speeches to oppose the re-appointment of incumbent judges to another term for this year’s “Judicial Interviews.” {Missed it Friday? Don’t fret, there’s always next year. Your offending judge just might be up for re-appointment in Dec. of 2011. So look for that judge’s name in this preliminary list (which is subject to change as judges advance to another court, retire, resign, die or are fired because people just like YOU got involved in this effort to remove unfit, corrupt or otherwise disabled judges), and if you see your judge listed, know that it's not too soon for you to begin to prepare for “Judicial Interviews of Incumbents 2011”: Richard Wallerstein, 7/1/2006-6/30/2012; Glenn Clayton, 10/1/2006-9/30/2012; Frank Somerville, 7/1/2006-6/30/2012; James Almand, 2/1/2004-1/31/2012… Continues on Facebook}

A circus, with our GA apt to certify sub-judges, circuit chiefs do a lot of the hiring

…How can this happen? Why do judges in Virginia issue court orders that can make an innocent-enough person feel like the victim of a “hate crime” when some sensibly administered justice would have sufficed? This can happen to people in Virginia because the judicial selection and re-selection process is deformed and has created a judiciary that is inbred which is producing even greater deformity as judicial rulings deteriorate and as judicial respect--for the dignity and the resources of litigants--decline.... ...Furthermore, I have noticed, when a judge advances to another court in mid-term, his or her interview is postponed, that is, delayed by the length of the term associated with that particular court (minus the number of years remaining in the old term): 6 years for district court, 8 for circuit, 8 for appeals and 12 for supreme. With the Judicial Performance Evaluation (JPE) program now cancelled by decision of the 2009 legislative session, “interviews,” known officially as “Judicial Interviews of Incumbents,” is the only screening mechanism in place, acting to protect citizen-consumers of legal services from defective judges. The event is annual and it really is Virginia’s ultimate oversight agency for the judiciary because even “Judicial Inquiry and Review Commission” board members must submit to “interviews.” But, and especially since most members of the general public do not go to “interviews,” it is mostly a “rubber-stamp affair.” Citizens, tragically, are skipping “interviews” because it is such a poorly promoted event, and sitting judges, apparently, are skipping “interviews” because jurists promoted before the end of their term slip through such a poorly designed system for screening them.... Our Carnivalesque Judicial Selection Process, read more, http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2009/05/referendumtime-dumb-disgusting-outright.html


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FOREWORD by Robin Yeamans, Esq. }find her on facebook

I never refer to a case as "high conflict." When you dig down to the bottom of a case labeled "high conflict," you find domestic violence and abuse. The two sides are not identically culpable. -R.Y.
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"If so, what does that relationship look like?" -Eric Holder*

"If so, what does that relationship look like?" -Eric Holder*
*Former judge on the Superior Court of the District of Columbia (Photograph clickable)

Commentary "A" by the APA Public Interest Directorate in a 1998 Report of the American Psychological Association Presidential Task Force On Violence And The Family on ISSUES AND DILEMMAS IN FAMILY VIOLENCE beginning WHEN PARENTS SEPARATE AFTER AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP, SHOULDN'T FATHERS HAVE AS MUCH RIGHT AS MOTHERS TO BE GRANTED PHYSICAL CUSTODY OF AND VISITATION RIGHTS WITH THEIR CHILDREN? and Commentary "B" by the American Judges Association in a 2002 Court Review Special Issue on DOMESTIC VIOLENCE beginning THE PARENTING OF MEN WHO BATTER

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Focus of January 2011 BMCC VIII will be to connect mothers

Focus of January 2011 BMCC VIII will be to connect mothers
Register online for Dr. Hannah's next conference by going to BatteredMothersCustodyConference.org (Click announcement)

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I personally receive calls, e-mails, and letters from protective mothers all over this country, as well as overseas, begging for help with their cases. The overriding theme is that their abusive ex-partner already has won or is about to "win" custody of their children. Ladies, think this could never happen to YOU? All you need to do is have a biological child with someone who is psychopathic, narcissistic, abusive, or otherwise sick enough to be willing--in his efforts to harm you--to cause massive harm to your child, as well. His task is simple enough; all he has to do is lie and manipulate the court system, making wild claims that you are a "fabricator," "crazy," "addicted," or an "alienator." He can then pay off all the court agents who are willing to do his bidding and take everything he says as the gospel truth, in exchange for his right to exercise power, control, and abuse over you and your kids until they reach majority age. The family court system, as it seems to currently operate, amounts to little more than a black market that gives children and babies to the highest bidder. The ONLY thing keeping this Potemkin village-like fiasco going in our family courts is the secrecy that cloaks the misdeeds. We need a deeply serious and impartial investigation of the family court systems of all 50 states, conducted by authorities with the will and the power to massively reform this corrupt machine. See http://www.batteredmotherscustodyconference.org/ for additional documentation about the family court fiasco. -Dr. Mo Therese Hannah, BMCC Chair and Protective Mothers Advocate, in public comment two years ago, in 2008

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Court appointees make profit by placing children in harm’s way. -Dr. Phil Show

Court appointees make profit by placing children in harm’s way. -Dr. Phil Show
Dr. Phil is now talking about it. If you missed the original airing of “Crisis in Family Court” on 14 April 2010, catch a rerun by checking his website regularly for its list of future shows. (“Crisis in Family Court” was repeated recently on August 14 and August 18; DVDs and transcripts can be ordered at DrPhil.com)

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Dr. Phil is looking for victims of “parental alienation” for an upcoming show: “Victim of Parental Alienation?” (“Do you believe that your ex-spouse, or soon-to-be ex-spouse, is preventing you from seeing your child? Do you believe that your ex is currently committing ‘parental alienation’ by making it very difficult OR preventing you from seeing your son or daughter? If you would like Dr. Phil’s help in mediating this issue and you’re also willing to appear on TV, please e-mail your story.”) Upcoming show topics also include: “Ex-Spouse Causing Your Child To Hate You?” (“Are you separated or recently divorced and you fear that your ex-spouse is alienating you from your child? Have you noticed a negative change in your child’s attitude and behavior towards you? Do you feel that your ex-spouse is the reason why your child is mistreating or ignoring you? If you would like Dr. Phil’s help in mediating this issue and you’re also willing to appear on TV, please e-mail your story.”) and “Who’s Right???” (“Is there a person in your life that blames you for everything? Do you want them to accept responsibility and end this blame game? Is someone in your life not admitting the harm they've caused you? Do they refuse to admit they are wrong? If so and YOU ARE WILLING TO APPEAR ON THE SHOW, tell us your story.”) -VW on 9.7.10

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Watch Kathleen Russell on Dr. Phil's "Crisis in Family Court"

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Q: What does the Zuckerman say? A: “Quack! Quack!”

Q: What does the Zuckerman say? A: “Quack! Quack!”
Court appointee William B. Zuckerman, Ph.D., telephoned a leader of the fathers’ rights group in Virginia and offered to help member fathers win custody. DR. ZUCKERMAN DIDN’T KNOW HE WAS TALKING TO MY FRIEND. William B. Zuckerman, Ph.D., never has telephoned a leader of the mothers’ rights movement in Virginia and never has offered to help member mothers gain custody. -Veronique Wyvell (Click pic)

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“Dear Miss: I came across your website when researching Dr. Zuckerman. As you can see from my signature below, I am an attorney. Opposing counsel is attempting to use Zuckerman to assist her client. I believe he is offering terrible advice which is hurting the family more than helping the situation…” ............ -A D.C. lawyer and professor of law at GW, in a spring 2010 message for Miss Veronique Wyvell

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Virginia judges have been forcing parents to watch SPARE THE CHILD since 2000 (video). The Virginia Supreme Court gave Dr. Zuckerman a lead role in the film (letter).

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Sandra Havrilak: She’ll spit on justice even if it means spitting on our children

Sandra Havrilak: She’ll spit on justice even if it means spitting on our children
Find “Support the Disbarment of Sandra Havrilak” on facebook and join the cause. ~Veronique Wyvell {Havrilak lies, Havrilak cheats, Havrilak steals: http://www.box.net/shared/4lv1tb8rz8 for “The Letters 5” (or click image) and http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2007/12/mark-e-rubin-senior-advisor-to-governor.html for “MARK E. RUBIN SENIOR ADVISOR TO THE GOVERNOR: ‘I can assure you that this information will be considered if Ms. Havrilak’s name comes up…’” (a response from Richmond)}

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Batterers, Barratry, Bedlam and Boycotts

}THE JUDGE AS BATTERER (NO WONDER THAT, MORE THAN EVER BEFORE, WOMEN IN DOMESTIC VIOLENCE CASES EVERYWHERE ARE ON THE RUN, BOLTING WITH THEIR CHILDREN, IN A GLOBAL BACKLASH AGAINST BARRATRY AND A WORLDWIDE BOYCOTT OF THE BENCH): A SAMPLING OF 25 YEARS OF SUPPORTING LITERATURE [Click book cover for an ever growing list of authorities on The Bedlam]

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Family courts, endangering children and punishing women

Family courts, endangering children and punishing women
Order online Dr. Hannah's new collection (with Mr. Goldstein) at CivicResearchInstitute.com

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Mother's Day 2010 at the White House

Peaceful Silent Vigil at The White House in Washington DC on 9 May 2010 Mother’s Day. "A cottage industry of mental health professionals and attorneys with cozy relationships with family court judges routinely bankrupt families with enormous court-ordered fees and often recommend that children be placed with their sexually or physically abusive fathers. Family court judges frequently ignore evidence of abuse, refuse to hear direct testimony from the children, and rubberstamp their cronies’ recommendations. Nurturing mothers are forced to pay costly fees to attend supervised visits with the children they raised, watching helplessly as their children continue to report abuse by their abusers to uncaring visitation monitors. Mothers who speak out about system failure often face judicial retaliation and lose what little time they have with their children. The unregulated cottage industry churns away, generating hundreds of thousands of dollars in fees to experts, while some of the worst cases settle only when the children turn 18. This is a national epidemic that is destroying families across America." (Photograph clickable)

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See the album at Facebook’s Center for Judicial Excellence: “Justice, Accountability, Children's Safety”

"Stop Court Crimes!"

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Sarah, in the 2005 PBS documentary Virginia is refusing to air*

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*"I'm, like, what kind of a person would take you away from your mom?" ... {Regarding little Sarah’s relegation to “day care”: Custody judges in Virginia routinely strip mostly stay-at-home mothers of their babies, toddlers, preschoolers and young children for commitment to full-time and year-long (summers included) placement in day care centers, that is, institutional care by total strangers, or for confinement with live-in and live-out nannies hired by abusive fathers; my own Brigitte was 2 when Judge Vieregg took her out of “mommy care” and gave her to a working couple and commercial care.} ~Veronique Wyvell~ Or, www.box.com/shared/ij7bvyuu7m

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The Custody Judge, A "Key Abuse Collaborator"

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. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . J U S T I C E . . W A N T E D . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . My custody order is incoherent. With one document the judge relies on the report and recommendation of a court appointee and removes and replaces the court appointee, a forensic evaluator (the same Child-Sparing screwball and father-puppet that from a witness stand had barked "She doesn't blink! Most people blink!" in testimony on the impact of my eyelid movements on my mothering skills) refusing for 12 years to let me see my raw psychological test data. I'm seeking an attorney who will agree this circuit ruling is not logical and help me suspend/annul the order. I'm not asking for a trial, just a motion to restore the JDR decision of May 1999, our only true & valid order. Veronique Wyvell (tel 703.748.0072), from February 1999 to Oct. 2015, victim of judicial battery, parental persecution, gang rape, highway robbery and general bullshit in the courts of the Commonwealth of Virginia, County of "Fair-facts"

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My incoherent custody order was decided in the wrong court: JUSTICE WANTED PART II. In a formal complaint for the Judicial Inquiry and Review Commission, I wrote: Why was my case left to linger in the Circuit Court of Fairfax County? Why did my case not go back to the Fairfax Juvenile & Domestic Relations District Court following entry (date 12/06/2000) of the final order by Judge Vieregg on an appeal from there? Instead, circuit judges allowed subsequent motions and hearings and even a second custody trial all in circuit court, the improper court. Between 2000 and 2004, Deel v. Wyvell passed through the hands of NINE different jurists on the Fairfax circuit bench: Judges Bellows, Havrilak, Keith, Klein, Ney, Roush, Smith, Thacher and Vieregg. All 9 had opportunity but would fail to execute Section 16.1-297 of the Code of Virginia. -V. Wyvell* [Enclosures: Custody Orders dated 07/14/99, 12/06/00, and 11/30/01] *Financial Damages suffered by Veronique Wyvell: $ 53,000.00

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No oversight, no accountability, no justice

No oversight, no accountability, no justice
"Fairfax County Circuit Court Judge Arthur B. Vieregg Unimpressed by Testimony of Preacher for United States Supreme Court Chief Justice William H. Rehnquist, My Boss the Reverend Dr. George W. Evans" is the title of one of my favorite mommy go bye bye blog postings. Justice Rehnquist attended Sunday services at the church that employed me. He liked our preacher. The preacher liked me. Judge Vieregg, however, didn't care much for either one of us.

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Mothers with a problematic legal case involving Vieregg, the circuit judge, and Zuckerman, the forensic psychologist, should contact me: The evidence has suggested Judge Arthur B. Vieregg and Dr. William B. Zuckerman may have owned real estate together or shared the same residential or mailing address; Vieregg appointed Zuckerman to conduct the Deel/Wyvell custody evaluation. The experience of your Mommy Go Bye Bye blogger has been that these two clowns are nothing more than, and her wish is for readers to take this quite literally, a couple of m----- f------ crooks. (Mr. Vieregg is now with McCammon.)

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THE IMPORTANT NUMBERS TO JUDGE VIEREGG AND DR. ZUCKERMAN HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH MY DAUGHTER’S AGE. Very early in Deel v. Wyvell the question would change from “Where’s the mistake?” to “Who’s making the most mistakes?” Vieregg sat for 3 big trials in 18 mos., in the matter of Brigitte, ages 2-3.

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How do we stop bad judges in Virginia? We start by clicking this poster

How do we stop bad judges in Virginia? We start by clicking this poster
This poster is linked to the community page on Facebook where citizens can retrieve a list naming the judges slated for re-appointment interviews in December 2011 and instructions for signing up to speak to stop the re-appointment of unfit and corrupt judges in Virginia: http://www.facebook.com/pages/Judicial-Interviews-of-Incumbents-2010-Richmond-Virginia/138253656230064. It depicts William B. Zuckerman, Ph.D., clinical psychologist (license no. 0810001150), child custody evaluator and known “paid whore” in the custody courts of the Commonwealth of Virginia. Dr. Zuckerman’s recommendations almost killed my 2-year-old because a judge (Arthur B. Vieregg) followed them. The judge retired in 2007. A FACEBOOK ACCOUNT IS NOT REQUIRED TO ACCESS THE JII COMMUNITY PAGE ON FACEBOOK.

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Name her team and win $100!

[Contest open 9.1.10] WIN $100! I want to offer the first individual who sends me an email containing the name of my daughter’s soccer team (fall 2010) a one hundred dollar bill. Collect your one hundred dollar bill simply by meeting me at her next game. Here she is pictured playing for the Loudoun Tigers All Stars last fall. This message was updated on September 1, 2010, by Veronique Wyvell

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"If you can give up a son, you can give back a daughter." -Miss Wyvell*

"If you can give up a son, you can give back a daughter." -Miss Wyvell*
*Click this photograph for the short story of Deel addiction to hate, jealousy, vengeance, rage, coercive control, manipulation and destruction of families (Next court date in CBOE case is August 19th in Leesburg)

Why won't they let my daughter go?

___________________________________ While in her mid-twenties, Lisa Ferry abandons her baby son in a catholic convent. While in his mid-thirties, Troy Deel abandons his baby son in an adoption scam. They terminate their parental rights to firstborns. Now both in their fifties, Troy and Lisa Deel are obsessed with forcing me out of the life of my child. Why won't they let my daughter go? ~Veronique Wyvell, mother of Brigitte, young victim of lawsuit abuse and foul play in the custody courts of Virginia (or ... The Deels think it’s ok to push custody papers that are not in order … They could be pushing their luck instead)

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Litigation as Psycho-Therapy, Litigation as Murder-Substitute

Litigation as Psycho-Therapy, Litigation as Murder-Substitute
‘WARDING OFF PSYCHIC COLLAPSE’ and ‘HOLDING OFF HATEFUL AND MURDEROUS WISHES’ with CUSTODY WARS: Ethicist and author Michael B. Donner PhD believes, in “tearing the child apart,” lawsuit abusing “parents remain both victim and victimizers in their own internal struggle.” (I believe Dr. Donner is one who “gets it,” and the bad custody judge is one who “looks the other way.” -Veronique Wyvell RN) Photograph clickable

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“The reality is that the ‘Good Dads’ settle these matters amicably.” -CP*

“The reality is that the ‘Good Dads’ settle these matters amicably.” -CP*
*Commentary by Charles Pragnell in “Sociopath Fathers : The ‘Charming’ Killers” ending with “It is to be hoped that society and Courts are able to more easily identify such sociopaths in the future and thereby provide the necessary protections for children and their mothers.” (Photograph clickable)

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A court ruling that contradicts the facts of the case . . .

A court ruling that contradicts the facts of the case . . .
...and recognizes eye-blinking as a relevant measurement of fitness to parent.

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Domestic Violence by Proxy: Why Terrorist Tactics Employed by Batterers Are Not "PAS" ... ~ The Leadership Council on Child Abuse & Interpersonal Violence 2009 ~

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“troy deel monster”*

“troy deel monster”*
*Search words googled by a visitor of this blog from IP address 75.75.106 on 22 June 2010

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Batterers such as Troy Deel are unlikely to share parenting*

Batterers such as Troy Deel are unlikely to share parenting*
*http://www.leadershipcouncil.org/docs/Truth_Commission_2007.pdf (Page 6/14)

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GOOD DADS DON’T ACT LIKE TROY DEEL

GOOD DADS DON’T ACT LIKE TROY DEEL
Brigitte and Mom on 14 July 2010 at the Rivercrest Swim Meet

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GOOD DADS DON’T ACT LIKE TROY DEEL Haunted by the truth this chronic trespasser on my motherhood says he will sue in email without subject, without substance Email #1 / Email #2 / Email #3 / Email #4 / Email #5 / Email #6 / Attachments, Aunt Dots

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Photo taken by mom, daughter taken by dad

Photo taken by mom, daughter taken by dad
“Brigitte has a mother who loves her very much,” and after six years of separation, I have a daughter who still loves me, much to the dismay of her disturbed father, Troy Deel. ~Veronique Wyvell on 11.11.2010

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An earlier life in pictures from a collection I call "My Pocketbook Album" . . .

An earlier life in pictures from a collection I call "My Pocketbook Album" . . .
…The album I regret was missing from my purse on July 14. It usually travels with me, in my purse, on days I go looking for Brigitte. So, Brigitte, if you are reading, click the picture above of us together for your 6th birthday to see “My Pocketbook Album” in pdf since I goofed up and forgot it when I left the house for Rivercrest that day I finally found you. I have many more photos I want to show you of your early life with your mother who has never, never stopped loving you. ~Posted by Veronique Wyvell on 18 Nov. 2010

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Pretend Phone, Pretend Mommy . . .

Pretend Phone, Pretend Mommy . . .
Troy Deel: “Rest assured, I will not be putting Brigitte in the middle of this in the future.” [Father of Brigitte, in a fax to her mother, Oct. 27, 2003]

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Troy Deel used this device to give his women pleasure . . .

Troy Deel used this device to give his women pleasure . . .
...The night I found him using it for the third time on my 15-month-old was our last together under his roof, yet my preference for iced chocolate milk would make me a pervert. The one food item my pregnant body did not reject by vomiting in eight months of hyperemesis gravidarum (complicated by potentially fatal preeclampsia) was labeled “a fetish” by Dr. William Zuckerman in his custody report. Zuckerman’s report would contain no discussion of the vibrator. See transcript of Deel testimony. -VW (Photograph clickable)

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Mother's savings -- not father's salary -- support baby Brigitte (We lived together) . . .

Mother's savings -- not father's salary -- support baby Brigitte (We lived together) . . .
…Dr. Zuckerman would also skip the subject of money in his $16,444.00 custody evaluation of the Deel-Wyvell (no marriage but we lived together) family. See transcript of Deel testimony. -VW (Image clickable)

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"If you're such a great father, why aren't you taking care of your son?" VW

"If you're such a great father, why aren't you taking care of your son?" VW
{Item #26} “Dr. Zuckerman overlooked the parent/child (often mother/child) separation issues and child abandonment issues which pervaded this case and were fundamental to an understanding of the conflict. The separation and abandonment themes are shockingly rampant in the recent history of this family: Troy Deel’s birthmother’s abandonment of him as a newborn when she left him on a stranger’s porch and their subsequent estrangement; Jackie Decker’s abandonment of her foster son and their subsequent estrangement, her foster son is Troy Deel; Troy Deel’s abandonment of his baby son (by Camen Shimer) and their subsequent estrangement; Carmen Shimer’s “kidnapping” of Troy Deel’s baby son and their subsequent estrangement from Troy Deel; Carmen Shimer’s father’s kidnapping of her from her mother and Carmen’s subsequent estrangement from her father (Carmen was reunited with her mother after 5 years of separation); finally, Lisa Ferry’s (Troy Deel’s current wife) abandonment of her newborn son in a convent after hiding there for the duration of her pregnancy and their subsequent estrangement. Dr. Zuckerman could not have been more negligent in his duty as a trained and experienced psychologist to identify and address unresolved conflict and to stop the monster that so much accumulated resentment has become as evidenced by the father’s obsessive drive to obliterate through litigation the mother (Veronique Wyvell) from their own daughter’s life. After all, the work of psychology is to explore human issues.” Item #26 above and Item #11 below were taken from the “Veronique Wyvell 34-Point/6-Page Official Statement of Heinous Behaviors and Atrocious Actions by Court Appointed Psychological Evaluator William Zuckerman in Troy Deel v. Veronique Wyvell, a Child Custody Evaluation” compiled on February 10, 2002 (and on file with VW). {Item #11} “At the time of the evaluation, Dr. Zuckerman’s daughters were refusing to speak with him because they sided with their mother whom he was divorcing. His troubled personal life should have ethically precluded him from evaluating custody disputes for others.”

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Troy Deel and court reporter scheme to sell Veronique rigged records . . .

Troy Deel and court reporter scheme to sell Veronique rigged records . . .
…Dastardly dad Troy Deel maintains a DOD/DSS Top Secret Level Personnel Security Clearance despite the premise that “[w]hen an individual’s life history shows evidence of unreliability or untrustworthiness, questions arise whether the individual can be relied on and trusted to exercise the responsibility necessary for working in a secure environment where protection of classified information is paramount,” however, clinical psychologist and forensic evaluator William Zuckerman would disregard all of my information and evidence in reference to Deel’s doctored court records by omitting every bit of that information and evidence from his custody report (http://www.dss.mil/disco/ps_faqs.html is source of quoted text). See transcript of Wyvell testimony and Wyvell letter to the head of the Court Reporters Association. -VW

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Troy Deel Sails Under False Colors

Troy Deel Sails Under False Colors
By order of the JDR court, I had full physical custody of Brigitte when Troy Deel registered her at Winwood; he had incomplete legal custody only. It is time for Troy “I’LL DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO GET WHAT I WANT!” Deel to stop impersonating ME, Brigitte’s Right and Proper parent since the Fair and Square Judge Carr decision of May 1999, by pushing for all to see custody papers that are not in order, or maybe it is time for Troy “I’LL DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO GET WHAT I WANT!” Deel to start moving to confirm the Incoherent, Unintelligible, Repugnant, and Completely Fraudulent Judge Vieregg decision of Nov. 2001. ~The devoted mother of a young victim of lawsuit abuse & foul play in the custody courts of Virginia~

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He never wanted me to have her. He wanted me to never know her. ~VW

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REGARDING ZUCKERMAN Table of Contents for William B Zuckerman PhD Licensed Clinical Psychologist aka Dr Zuckerman or Bill of 8987 Cotswold Dr Burke Va

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Regarding Zuckerman
TABLE OF CONTENTS

28} http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2009/11/bill-zuckerman-backstabbing-billing.html

27} http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2009/09/hey-abusive-fathers-looking-for-best.html

26} http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2009/09/william-zuckerman-phd-fraudster-case.html


25} http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2009/06/for-arbiters-in-custody-battles-wide.html

24} http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2009/09/judge-arthur-vieregg-unimpressed-by.html

23} http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2009/09/zeroing-in-on-zuckerman-master.html

22} http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2009/09/checkbook-custody-in-commonwealth.html

21} http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2009/09/how-i-became-opportunity-new-post-and.html

20} http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2009/01/how-i-became-opportunity-tort-against.html

19} http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2009/07/suing-zuckerman-for-withholding-test.html

18} http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2009/06/infamous-forensic-evaluator-of.html

17} http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2008/12/william-bill-zuckerman-phd-licensed.html

16} http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2008/12/judge-charles-maxfield-sentences-15.html

15} http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2008/09/not-to-mothers-like-us.html

14} http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2008/06/mrs-brown-bill-and-his-barnyard.html

13} http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2008/02/stanton-samenow-chris-lane-william.html

12} http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2007/08/breakup-specialist-glenn-c-lewis-esq.html

11} http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2007/07/starting-with-sandy-and-story-of-summer.html

10} http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2007/07/premeditated-rulings-when-judge-picks.html

9} http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2007/06/itll-cost-ya-court-appointed-spare.html

8} http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2007/06/without-alis-approximation-rule-justice.html

7} http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2007/06/gravy-train-that-dumps-litigants-into.html

6} http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2007/06/toot-toot-3800-buys-lot-of-cigars.html

5} http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2007/05/virginia-family-courtrooms-minefield.html

4} http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2007/05/mommy-go-bye-bye-mothers-against-unjust.html

3} http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2007/04/in-virginia-child-custody-evaluators.html


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HOW I BECAME AN OPPORTUNITY: TORT AGAINST DEFTS ZUCKERMAN, HAVRILAK FOR TORTUOUS ACTS; MOTION TO RELIEVE PARTY FROM JUDGMENTS FAVORING HAVRILAK, DEEL

tor-tu-ous adj 1 : marked by repeated twists, bends, or turns : WINDING (a tortuous path) 2 a : marked by devious or indirect tactics : CROOKED, TRICKY (a tortuous conspiracy)
b : CIRCUITOUS, INVOLVED (the tortuous jargon of legal forms)

888 The Case 888

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V I R G I N I A:

..............IN THE CIRCUIT COURT OF FAIRFAX COUNTY

VERONIQUE WYVELL, registered nurse.................)
..........Plaintiff, Pro Se.............................................)
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WILLIAM ZUCKERMAN, psychologist....................)
SANDRA HAVRILAK, lawyer and Substitute Judge.) JURY TRIAL
TROY DEEL, client of Havrilak and Zuckerman........) DEMANDED
..........Defendants. ..................................................)
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TORT AGAINST DEFENDANTS ZUCKERMAN & HAVRILAK FOR TORTUOUS ABUSE ACTIONS and MOTION TO RELIEVE A PARTY FROM JUDGMENTS FAVORING HAVRILAK & DEEL

Petitioner Veronique Wyvell [is] a citizen of the United States of America and the Commonwealth of Virginia whose civil rights and quiet enjoyment of life with her daughter have been and are being violated by each of the several defendants, individually, and in an enterprise together. This enterprise has used and is using its collective insider influence to corrupt actions and decisions of instrumentalities of the Commonwealth of Virginia, thus constituting a Fraud and giving cause to honor the Plaintiff’s request to vacate prior Circuit Court Orders under Virginia Code 8.01-428.

In a Writ of Error Coram Nobis [Invoice] to the Supreme Court of Virginia in an appeal of the decision of that body issued on 3 December 2004, the “insider influence” enterprise of Havrilak, as a Substitute Judge, with another judge on the bench of the Circuit Court of Fairfax County, extensively detailed the violation of Civil Rights by attorney Sandra Havrilak accomplished by exploiting her connections as a Substitute Judge, on behalf of her client Troy Deel, and for her own financial gain by “churned” legal fees. Sanctions under Virginia Code 8.01-271.1 have been demanded in documents filed with the Courts.

Havrilak and Zuckerman form an enterprise that has used their joint influence with an entity of the Commonwealth to violate the rights of Plaintiff Veronique Wyvell. Fairfax Medical Malpractice attorney, David Duff and his colleague, Benjamin Smith, gave the Plaintiff two Supreme Court cases when they discussed with the Plaintiff ethical infractions and malpractice perpetrated against Plaintiff Wyvell by court appointed William Zuckerman. In court Havrilak said she had worked with Zuckerman before [Watt v. Watt]. Also Duff’s law office gave one Supreme Court case from CaseFinder on legal malpractice to cite regarding the abuse of rights of Plaintiff Wyvell by attorney Havrilak.

In over four years Zuckerman has committed an ongoing “Obstruction of Justice” by refusal to release to registered nurse Wyvell the raw test data, which could validate -- or invalidate -- his insider influenced and corrupt evaluation submitted to the court, as APA Ethics Guidelines recommend. Zuckerman’s refusal strongly suggests his invalid evaluation. Havrilak has exploited his Obstruction.

Further, psychologist Zuckerman, in the process of his own messy divorce where his daughters did not wish to speak with him, spoke a Sexual Innuendo to Plaintiff Wyvell at the outset of an interview. The sexual innuendo made her extremely uneasy near him during office visits. It constitutes Sexual Abuse by Zuckerman that is a violation of APA Professional Ethics Guidelines, further rendering invalid his “work”.

In Lohr v. Larsen, 246 Va. 81, 431 S.E.2d 642 (1993) the cancerous spread and overuse and misuse of Sovereign Immunity was noted by Justice Hassell, joined by Justice Keenan, who in dissent write:

“Today, the majority expands the scope of sovereign immunity to include licensed physicians who practice in state health clinics. As a result of the majority’s decision, indigent persons who receive negligent health care from such physicians have no remedy in tort against them.”

.........Further, Justice Hassell writes in the 1993 Lohr decision:

“In James, just as here, the physicians argued that they enjoyed the cloak of sovereign immunity and, thus, were immune from a lawsuit…”

The “cloak of sovereign immunity” does not apply to Zuckerman or Havrilak.

In Atkinson v. Sachno, 261 Va. 278, 541 S.E.2d 902 (2001) while Justice Hassell was absent, the court wrote an opinion that establishes the standing for Plaintiff Wyvell to bring a Tort against independent contractors Zuckerman and Havrilak. Deel is their client, an individual with business and political influence who has damaged the Plaintiff:

“So that no doubt will exist on that issue, we expressly hold that while some employees or agents of the Commonwealth may be entitled to the protection of sovereign immunity, all independent contractors are excluded from that protection.”

William Zuckerman, a licensed clinical psychologist, is an independent contractor and thereby is excluded from protection from Tort Liability for his “professional”, or “medical” malpractice. Any false claim of his or claim by his lawyer for the citizen-abusive-concept of Sovereign Immunity that in practice shields “state actors” who abuse and violate the rights of innocent citizens, such as Zuckerman has done with many, many women, is unwarranted and subject to further court action at the federal level.

In Adkins v. Dixon, 253 Va. 275, 482 S. E. 2d 797 (1997) the Supreme Court of Virginia said:

“[7] Nor do we agree with the defendant’s contention that sufficient control is found in Dixon’s “status as an officer of the Court” and by the “Code of Professional Responsibility, as administered by [Page 281] the State Bar…”

“[8] For these reasons, we conclude that there is no such immunity in these cases. Therefore, the court erred in sustaining a plea of immunity.”

Plaintiff Wyvell and countless other victims of legal malpractice and legal abuse sanctionable under Virginia Code 8.01-271.1 find the above quotation from the Supreme Court a breath of fresh air because the justices’ words serve as tacit acknowledgement that the Virginia State Bar has failed to “self-police” its lawyer members. Virginia Courts need to step up and protect the public with “271.1” sanctions against abusive attorneys like Sandra Havrilak.

Havrilak exploits her position as a Substitute Judge to have a court colleague approve her “churning” of legal fees. Havrilak then writes the order for that judge, on her own legal stationery in a brazen act of arrogance, setting the bond amount against Plaintiff Wyvell near exactly equal ($7862.00 vs. $7862.17 vs. $7862.50) to her excessive, “churned” legal fees. This action of Substitute Judge Havrilak endorsed by her colleague Judge Thacher through his signature is a Violation of the Constitutional Rights of Plaintiff Wyvell guaranteed by the Eighth Amendment protecting citizens, that reads “Excessive bail shall not be…”

The irregular bond amount of $7862.00 has no relation to a simple guarantee of the appearance of Plaintiff Wyvell in Court, which is the sole rightful purpose of bail. It is remunerative for Substitute Judge Havrilak, and punitive against Plaintiff Wyvell.

In this case, attorney Havrilak is protected by neither Sovereign Immunity as a sometimes court paid Guardian Ad Litem, or by Judicial Immunity as a sometimes court paid Substitute Judge. The Code of Professional Responsibility and its underlying ethics lay lost, buried deep under Havrilak’s financial gain by excessive legal bills.

In May 1999, Judge Carr of the Fairfax County Juvenile and Domestic Relations Court signed an order awarding sole physical custody of daughter Brigitte to Plaintiff Wyvell. Brigitte is also the daughter of Defendant Troy Deel. Judge Carr’s Order was appealed to the Fairfax County Circuit Court, whereupon Havrilak entered the case, a conflict of interest because she also serves as a Substitute Judge in that very same court.

The Fairfax Bar Journal, Fall/Winter 2004 issue, on page 6 has an Interview with a newly appointed judge, the Honorable Mitchell I. Mutnick. His commentary is pertinent to the abuse of power and position by Substitute Judge Havrilak:

“Substitute judging made my practice more difficult….Subbing also forced me to make my practice more restrictive, because I felt it was inappropriate to practice and sub in the Juvenile and Domestic Relations Court.

Havrilak has not regulated herself in the ethical manner exemplified by Judge Mutnick.

The Virginia State Bar Rules of Professional Conduct in the PREAMBLE: A LAWYER’S RESPONSIBILITIES, reads in part:

The legal profession is largely self-governing. Although other professions also have been granted powers of self-government, the legal profession is unique in this respect because of the close relationship between the profession and the processes of government and law enforcement. This connection is manifested in the fact that ultimate authority over the legal profession is vested largely in the courts.

Havrilak has not “self-governed” herself in an ethical manner, or even a legal manner.

The Virginia Judicial Inquiry and Review Commission posts Judicial Canons. Judicial CANON 2: “A judge shall avoid impropriety and the appearance of impropriety in all of the judge's activities.” and CANON 6: “Judges pro tempore, retired judges, and substitute judges are required to comply with the Canons.” have been violated by both Judges Thacher and Havrilak. A jury in a federal case would likely decide there was a violation of judicial ethics, and violation of Constitutional Rights.

The Virginia Constitution Article VI, Section 10 reads in part:

“If the Supreme Court after the hearing on the complaint finds that the judge has engaged in misconduct while in office, … or that he has engaged in conduct prejudicial to the proper administration of justice, it shall censure him or shall remove him from office…” (Bold and underline added for emphasis.)

This Virginia Constitution requirement applies to both Judge Thacher and Substitute Judge Havrilak.

Havrilak manipulated circumstances in the Circuit Court where she also sits on the bench to the disastrous disadvantage of Plaintiff Wyvell, and adverse to the Best Interests of the Child, her daughter Brigitte. With the agreement of Havrilak, on 16 February 2000 Zuckerman was appointed as Forensic Child Custody Evaluator. After Zuckerman’s sexual overture in an initial interview was ignored by Plaintiff Wyvell, he testified in September 2000, adverse to Plaintiff Wyvell, recommending Child Custody be transferred to the father, Defendant Deel.

Shocked by Zuckerman’s testimony in the Circuit Court and concerned it was in retaliation for his sexual advance being spurned by her, Registered Nurse Wyvell asked for the raw test data, and has continued to ask for the test data for over four years from Psychologist Zuckerman.

Zuckerman continues to violate APA Professional Guidelines by refusing to release the test data. The Journal of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers in vol. 18, 2002, page 58 under “III. Psychological Testing” says,

“Moreover, the objective data generated by the psychological tests can balance the bias and potential errors inherent in clinical interview data.”

In his custody report, Zuckerman also recommended “psychotherapy”, so the judge ordered a “treatment plan” based on Zuckerman’s evaluation and recommendation, which by concealment of test data strongly suggests bias, errors, and fraud in the Courts.

Havrilak then continued to exploit this corrupt, sexually abusive psychologist - client relationship with the unfounded demand for a “treatment plan”. In the absence of a plan, Havrilak used her colleagues on the Circuit Court, in ruling after ruling, to reduce the parenting time of Plaintiff Wyvell and deny summer vacation time by the false claim of her refusal to comply with a (non-existent) treatment plan, thereby harassing Plaintiff Wyvell to desperation, dejection and depletion of financial resources.

Then Havrilak used Plaintiff Wyvell’s exhaustion to have her jailed -- a victim of the vexatious litigation engineered by attorney / substitute judge Havrilak.

Havrilak’s colleague Judge Thacher hand wrote “CASH ONLY” on the CAPIAS he signed for the excessive bail amount demanded. That bond was posted by Chris Wyvell, the brother of Plaintiff Wyvell. The Fairfax Court then violated its Contractual requirements with Chris Wyvell per DC-330 Surety Bond Form by confiscating his Surety Bond, stealing from one citizen to pay the legal fees of Substitute Judge Havrilak. The bond amount that should have been properly returned to Chris Wyvell is now the subject of a Writ Of Error Corum Nobis to the Virginia Supreme Court.

With the expressed ideal of the Virginia State Bar being that lawyers in the Commonwealth of Virginia are “self-governing”, the Plaintiff submits this Tort case to Virginia judges who are also lawyers of Virginia, for compensation for damages suffered, and a punitive award against a lawyer, Sandra Havrilak.

Additional damages have been suffered due to the actions of a court appointed custody evaluator, William Zuckerman, and by the initiator of the actions, Troy Deel.

The statewide reputation of psychologist Zuckerman from his leading role in the Supreme Court and Virginia State Bar funded factually deceptive video “Spare The Child”, influences an “enterprise” or “corrupt organization” of attorney / Judge Havrilak in league with Zuckerman, which likely caused over thirty (30) local lawyers and one in Richmond whom Plaintiff Wyvell contacted to decline to assist her with this case.
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PRAYER FOR RELIEF

It is the Plaintiff’s Prayer for Relief...this case will be wisely decided at the state level under Virginia Code 8.01-428, this Motion for Relief of Judgments of the Circuit Court of Fairfax County is also a Writ of Mandamus for a return to the Status Quo Ante, with the reasonable, right, and proper May 1999 custody decision of Judge Carr of the Fairfax County Juvenile and Domestic Relations District Court that is Sole Physical Custody of the child with the natural mother, nurse, church nursery attendant, pre-school teacher’s assistant, and Plaintiff Veronique Wyvell.

The alternative to an unjust decision in Fairfax Circuit Court is filing of a 42 USC 1983 Civil Rights Violation lawsuit in federal court. The United States Department of Justice intervened in the case of Annette Greco Litman v. George Mason University (4th Circuit 98-1472), and with a Pro Se plaintiff, Gloria Willingham v. Crooke, et al v. Fairfax County (4th Circuit 00-2053-A).

Substantial financial damages (over $94,000.00 US dollars) have been suffered by Plaintiff Wyvell. Untold pain and suffering justify, in addition, a punitive award against Zuckerman and Havrilak for damages. Enumeration of the financial harm is given below:

Attorney Gold ... $ 3000.00

Attorney Plevy ... $ 30,000.00

Attorney Havrilak ... $ 2500.00

Attorney Barondess ... $ 27,000.00

Attorney Schiller ... $ 450.00

Psychologist Zuckerman ... $ 6500.00

Psychologist Samenow ... $ 1700.00

Psychiatrist Novello ... $ 5000.00

Psychologist Koch ... $ 1500.00

Psychologist Eabon ... $ 250.00

Psychologist Pearlman ... $ 600.00

Surety Bond ... $ 7862.00

Attorney Hirsch ... $ 8000.00 [ Appendix / Brief / Petition ]

... ... (rough) $ 94,362.00 Financial Damages suffered by Plaintiff

(Above are approximate amounts, the Sheriff on a Writ from the Court can determine the precise amounts, and total amount of financial harm suffered by the Plaintiff Wyvell.):

And the above financial damages do not represent the hours upon hours and hours of the Plaintiff’s time required for research, writing, and court appearances. The mere listing of the many “professionals” involved suggests a measure of the unnecessary pain and suffering experienced by Plaintiff Wyvell caused by attorney Havrilak’s exploitation of her “insider influence” as a substitute judge. The “racketeering” within the “enterprise” of Havrilak and Zuckerman, who both used their considerable insider influence has contributed to the corruption of the organization known as the Circuit Court of Fairfax County, to the serious detriment of Plaintiff Wyvell and her minor child.

Respectfully submitted,

Veronique Wyvell
Plaintiff, Pro Se
7831 Enola Street, #TA7
McLean, VA 22102
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CERTIFICATE OF SERVICE

I hereby certify that true copies of the foregoing were served as follows on this 16th day of December 2004:

-- By facsimile and mail, postage prepaid, to WILLIAM ZUCKERMAN, psychologist, Fax: 703-764-3068, 8987 Cotswold Drive, Burke, VA 22015

-- By facsimile and mail, postage prepaid, to SANDRA HAVRILAK, lawyer and Substitute Judge, Fax: 703-591-4847, 9900 Main Street, Suite 500, Fairfax, VA 22031

-- By mail, postage prepaid, to TROY DEEL, client of Havrilak and Zuckerman, 19959 Palmer Classic Parkway, Ashburn, VA 20147

Veronique Wyvell
Plaintiff, Pro Se
7831 Enola Street, #TA7
McLean, VA 22102
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Exhibit A

In the Circuit Court of Fairfax County CASE NO. CH162281
Wyvell v. Zuckerman, Havrilak, and Deel

EXTRACTS OF PETITIONS FOR REDRESS OF GRIEVANCES ON ATTORNEY HARASSMENT AND SUBSTITUTE JUDGE INSIDER INFLUENCE ABUSE

§ 8.01-271.1. Signing of pleadings, motions, and other papers; oral motions; sanctions.

Every pleading, written motion, and other paper of a party represented by an attorney shall be signed by at least one attorney of record in his individual name,…

The signature of an attorney or party constitutes a certificate by him that (i) he has read the pleading, motion, or other paper, (ii) to the best of his knowledge, information and belief, formed after reasonable inquiry, it is well grounded in fact and is warranted by existing law or a good faith argument for the extension, modification, or reversal of existing law, and (iii) it is not interposed for any improper purpose, such as to harass or to cause unnecessary delay or needless increase in the cost of litigation. …

If a pleading, motion, or other paper is signed or made in violation of this rule, the court, upon motion or upon its own initiative, shall impose upon the person who signed the paper or made the motion, a represented party, or both, an appropriate sanction, which may include an order to pay to the other party or parties the amount of the reasonable expenses incurred because of the filing of the pleading, motion, or other paper or making of the motion, including a reasonable attorney's fee.
(1987, cc. 259, 682; 1998, c. 596.)

1) To: Substitute Judge / Attorney Sandra Havrilak, Fairfax County Circuit Court, ltr from Veronique Wyvell dated 6 May 2003, reads in part:

Here is my reaction to your 1 May letter: Troy was properly served with notice of my motion via fax, first class mail, and hand-delivery. He has once again simply lied to you.”

“Courthouse records show you never filed a notice of withdrawal to end your legal representation of Troy.”

“…because I can’t stand a judge who goes red in the face at the drop of a hat and loses his temper in a courtroom full of people.”

“And, if you manage a successful motion to quash, don’t expect me to pay your fees…

“I’ve been trying for over four years to resolve the matter…”

This Petition letter addresses harassment, delay and increases in cost of litigation.

2) To: Chief Judge Michael McWeeny, Fairfax County Circuit Court, ltr from Veronique Wyvell dated 14 May 2003, reads in part:

“Opposition by Ms. Sandra Havrilak to random judging even for five minute motions is annoying me. She is the attorney for the plaintiff, Mr. Troy Deel; I am the defendant and the mother of Brigitte who is at the center of this custody dispute. I am trying my best to handle small problems on my own because these matters are urgent and more than thirty lawyers in this town have declined to accept my case.”

“Bickering by Ms. Havrilak over who should be our judge and now her squabbling over who should be our custody evaluator have deadlocked my case. I hope to have your reply before my motion in late May…”

This Petition letter addresses harassment, delay and increases in cost of litigation.

3) To: Substitute Judge / Attorney Sandra Havrilak, Fairfax County Circuit Court, ltr from Veronique Wyvell dated 30 May 2003, reads in part:

“You have the arrogance to insist you cannot find satisfaction with Dr. Samenow’s diagnostic summaries because they show the absence of mental disease, causing you to question the doctor’s integrity. You picked him.”

“You then have the audacity to obligate me to:

(1) the financing of Dr. Samenow’s reinvolvement when the treatment plan you seek is obviously non-existent,

(2) a Motion to Compel when the treatment plan you seek is obviously non-existent,

(3) a three hour trial when the treatment plan you seek is obviously non-existent, and

(4) paying you for defending Troy Deel when the treatment plan you seek is obviously non-existent.”

“Because you bungled your effort to get rid of William Zuckerman to coverup his many mistakes including his misdiagnosis of me and his defective recommendation that I get psychotherapy our custody evaluator is also non-existent, complicating my full compliance with our custody order.”

“Congratulations for inventing the perverted basis for your July trial.”

“I am astounded by your relentless misuse of the law to abuse me and to harass me and to bring me down morally and financially. You already deserve sanctioning for barging in on my relationship with Dr. Samenow last spring…”

“…forcing me to report you and your misconduct to the Virginia State Bar, complicating once again my compliance with our custody order.”

“cc: …Chief Judge Michael McWeeny”

This Petition letter addresses harassment, delay and increases in cost of litigation.

4) To: Substitute Judge / Attorney Sandra Havrilak, Fairfax County Circuit Court, ltr from Veronique Wyvell dated 14 June 2003, reads in part:

“Allow me to make another good faith effort to explain my position on your refusal for two consecutive years now to allow my daughter to have summer vacation visitation with me in light of your notice today of more bad faith litigation against me for July:…”

“…and Fairfax lawyers, with the exception of Mr. Cottrell, protect “Bill” by giving him special treatment when the FBI claims I have a class action malpractice suit against the impostor.” [“Bill” refers to William Zuckerman, court appointed psychologist who was used by Havrilak to render a custody evaluation adverse to Veronique Wyvell]

“cc: The Honorable Michael McWeeny, Chief Judge, Fairfax Circuit Court”

This Petition letter addresses harassment, delay and increases in cost of litigation.

5) To: John Frey, Clerk, Fairfax County Circuit Court, ltr from Veronique Wyvell dated 15 August 2003, reads in part:

“For the record and in reference to the motion against me set for 29 August 2003, I refuse to represent myself and lawyers refuse my case.”

“Mental impairment and physical impairment in Mark Barondess and William Zuckerman during their involvement with my case seriously jeopardized due process of law for me.”

“…and I am forwarding to Judge Thacher, Judge McWeeny, and Sandra Havrilak the materials under review by the American Psychological Association for ethical violations by Dr. Zuckerman.”

“Considering the crippled condition of my case which is entirely beyond my control the subpoena forcing my court presence on the 29th only to be disparaged even more than I already have been is reprehensible.”

“cc: The Honorable Michael McWeeny, Chief Judge”

This Petition letter addresses harassment, delay and increases in cost of litigation.

6) To: Tom Davis, United States Congressman, ltr from Veronique Wyvell dated 22 August 2003, reads in part:

“Please advise the courts of Fairfax, Virginia to stop abusing me. I am a non-offending mother. Instead of giving me the retrial I deserve, they are badgering me, indeed terrorizing me,…”

“I hope for relief from constant disparagement by barbaric courts infected with warped judging, malicious repetitive litigation meant to harass, and fraudulent custody evaluations by a corrupt child psychologist named William Zuckerman.”

“cc: The Honorable Michael McWeeny, Chief Judge
The Honorable Jonathan Thacher, Judge
John Frey, Clerk of the Court
Sandra Havrilak, Attorney at Law”

This Petition letter addresses harassment, delay and increases in cost of litigation.*

*Please see also the October 6, 2003 cover letter of Attorney / Substitute Judge Sandra Havrilak, which self-incriminates her with regard to the above Petitions, and her billing of $7862.17 from May 19, 2003 to July 10, 2003 (on the two pages that follow).


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The light of public attention must be shone on these little cliques of judges and lawyers who play the system for personal benefit.
-J. Lafferty,
"Misconduct in Virginia Family Courts"

[This post was first published on 11 Sep 09. It is incomplete, however. Please expect "How I Became An Opportunity" to remain under construction for most of the month. -VW]

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… Be careful in agreeing to any court-appointed guardians, psychologists, therapists, parent coordinators, evaluators or other professionals associated with your case -- especially ones you did not choose. Inform the court that you would like to obtain background information on these people and, if you can, submit the name of someone you choose …
-Crisis For Women In Family Court: What To Expect and How To Fight Back A Brochure from the National Organization for Women Ad Hoc Family Law Committee, Washington DC, July 2008

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JUDICIAL GUIDE TO CHILD SAFETY IN CUSTODY CASES

Mediation is generally not appropriate where safety issues (domestic violence, stalking, coercion, or sexual assault) of a parent or child are identified. Many jurisdictions mandate mediation of child custody and visitation disputes; some exempt cases where safety to one parent is a factor. Although safety risks, abuse, or coercion might not be identified at the point of initial filing, risk issues might arise as the case proceeds. You should examine whether cases labeled “high-conflict” are appropriate for mediation, since many high-conflict cases have abuse or coercion as a component. … If mediation is ordered, use only mediators who are competent in abuse/safety issues; and instruct the mediator to terminate mediation if it becomes a coercive or lop-sided situation… [Source: BENCHCARD NUMBER NINE (9)]

[This post was first published on 1 August 2009]