That this situation has gone on as long as it has is unconscionable and needs to be corrected without further delay. -Karen Asche*
She participated in annual interviews last December, offered public testimony on being shellacked, slandered and shafted, in Virginia courtrooms and contributed to the removal of a state circuit judge. This fit, loving, non-offending mother would now like to offer some clarification, especially for those who did not go to Richmond on December 11 for Judicial Interviews of Incumbents and went instead to The Washington Post for the “scoop.” So below is her letter to the father of her child which does exactly that; it sets the record straight by properly implicating forensic psychologist and child custody evaluator William Zuckerman in the disposal of wayward jurist Gaylord Finch. [Introduction by VW]
Wei Wilson has not seen her 12-year-old, nor spoken with her, in more than two years. The victims of eight years of sham proceedings, agreements and judgments, they were for a second time wrongfully ordered into supervised visitation by yet another member of Fairfax’s Zuckerman-friendly bench, Judge R. Terrence Ney, in the spring of 2007.
Dr. Zuckerman is a quack -- a rainmaker's dream come true -- known to target good mothers of lone daughters and favor fathers with NPD and money.
The letter never answered by Wei's ex-husband, her daughter’s father, a 63-year-old pathological narcissist:
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Wei Jian Wilson
2665 Prosperity Avenue, #009
Fairfax, Virginia 22031
Tel xxx.xxx.xxxx / WeiJianWilson@gmail.com
Friday, May 29, 2009
Ronald C. Wilson
14416 Chamberry Circle
Haymarket, Virginia 20169
Tel xxx.xxx.xxxx
Re: Grace, summer vacations, and taking turns
Case No. 2006 2159 (Formerly known as CH 175809)
Dear Ron,
Last fall, I accepted an invitation from Delegate and Courts of Justice Chairman Dave Albo to speak against the re-appointment of Judge Gaylord Finch. In December, with Ms. Elizabeth “Liz” Haring, I contributed to his removal from the bench. And in March, Tom Jackman of The Washington Post wrote about us. My name is missing from his article. So is the real reason why Judge Finch won’t be coming back in 2010.
I believe it is my turn to vacation with Grace this summer. I want to offer you one uninterrupted week and every other weekend, beginning on the day after school lets out and ending on the day before class resumes. Please write me with your answer by June 5.
If you are unable to agree it is my turn to vacation with Grace this summer, I am prepared to go back to court. (Our case is still open.) After all, I have nothing to lose by filing a motion, or two, or three, or four, whatever it takes to force the respect I don’t get and the fair rulings I am due. This, however, may not be true for the judges who hear them.
Next autumn will find me back in Richmond for “Judicial Interviews of Incumbents.” And whether or not I present testimony in 2009, or 2010, or 2011, or 2012, to the Courts of Justice panel will very much depend on when I finally see from a Fairfax judge the respect and the fair rulings I deserve.
Whereas, I have nothing to lose by going back to court, those judges going back to old attitudes about women in litigation when these women are mothers and old approaches to women in litigation when these women are mothers could face a new and unfriendly reality at interview time. Those judges clinging to old appointees and old “accessories” should count on it. For example, any judge more loyal to Dr. Zuckerman than to Virginia law would stand a good chance of being fired. Those judges have everything to lose.
It happened to Mr. Finch.
Missing from Mr. Jackman’s piece for The Post are my name and the fact that it was “Bill” who cut short the career of Judge Gaylord Finch; “Bill” is the real reason why Judge Gaylord Finch won’t be coming back in 2010. We have in our county worse judges than Finch. William “Bill” Zuckerman just happens to be the worst court appointee and the worst court accessory in our state. And these two are friends.
Mr. Zuckerman did not belong in our situation; he does not belong in our courthouse. Mr. Zuckerman belongs in our jailhouse, stripped of his license to practice psychology. And, because the reports and recommendations of this defective and dangerous “doctor” influenced all aspects of our case, all court orders in our case belong in the trash.
I hope the chief judge of our Zuckerman-friendly bench is still reading.
And I sincerely hope we will avoid litigation and instead begin to negotiate an agreement regarding our Grace, her summer vacations, and the importance of taking turns.
Very truly yours,
Wei Wilson
PS - I’ve stapled to my letter a copy of the top half of page B1 from the March 2, 2009, issue of The Washington Post. This Tom Jackman story starts there and continues on page B5. His full report can be found at http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/%20article/2009/03/01/AR2009030101882.html. It is titled “Va. Judge Selection Process Criticized: Group Challenges Lack of Public Input.”
cc: The Honorable Dennis J. Smith, Chief Judge
Fairfax County Circuit Court
4110 Chain Bridge RoadFairfax, Virginia 22030
Tel 703.691.7320
cc: Tom Jackman, Staff Writer
The Washington Post
1150 15th Street NW
Washington, DC 20071
Tel 202.334.6000
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*TO THE FAIRFAX COUNTY CIRCUIT COURT:
Regarding Wei Wilson
A TESTIMONIAL BY KAREN ASCHE
Credentials:
>Special Education Teacher for 30 years
>B.A. in sociology with specialty in social work and minor in psychology
>M.A. in early childhood development in special education
>Ed.S. in infant studies with specialty in parenting and attachment
>Parent of four children (one adopted), and six grandchildren
>12 years in consultation and diagnostics with public school home program, providing in-home services and staff development to educational institutions
>Designed parenting assessment tool used by the school system
Observed:
I have known Wei Wilson this year as a co-worker for the public school system. She has demonstrated exceptional skill working with middle school students with learning and behavioral deficits. She has a clear understanding of the emotional needs of young adolescents and has provided guidance and support to youth in her charge and to fellow staff. Her personal qualities as a parent are clearly in evidence. She is compassionate yet firm in instructing young people. She applies developmentally appropriate expectations of adolescent behavior. She is in exceptional health and vigor for her age. She demonstrates outstanding coping skills and ability to make positive decisions toward accomplishing her goals. She applies self-control and good work ethic in her very demanding job. She has successfully parented a son, who functions fully as a contributing citizen to society. I fail to see any reason why she should be denied the opportunity to parent her daughter. She seems emotionally and physically quite capable of doing so. In fact, it would be clearly detrimental to her daughter to continue any separation of mother and daughter. Daughters need their mothers. There are many problems that can result from denying a young girl the benefit of her own mother. The fact that she is of Chinese descent is an inadequate justification for doing so. Previous justification for separating this wonderful person from her child were based on misinformation and irresponsible conclusions. Having a birth mother parent her own daughter is, according to all current research, in the best interests of the child. To have allowed Wei [no] phone contact and only supervised visits is cruel and abusive to both child and mother. That this situation has gone on as long as it has is unconscionable and needs to be corrected without further delay.
6/17/09
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ADDENDA
...Wei, today's testimony was very telling. Samenow said Zuckerman found psychopathology in you, but he and multiple other professionals did not. What can we draw from that? Zuckerman lied about you, plain and simple. You lost your kid because of Zuckerman.
-Elizabeth "Liz" Haring in email of 12 July 2007, subject “Zuckerman”
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