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We are not complaining, in this place, about a simple problem of discrimination against women in litigation. From this place, we are cautioning the public about a serious situation of maltreatment of women in litigation when these women are mothers. ~Veronique W.

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Barry Goldstein Interview 12 Sep 2010

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.......................................In most cases mothers are pathologized or demonized in order to create the appearance of a justification for the extreme actions taken. When the bad decisions backfire in a way that demonstrates even to the courts that the wrong decision was made, the defenders of the courts like to believe these cases constitute the exceptions to the usual good job done by courts. There is now a large body of research about these cases that show there are too many cases with extreme results and flawed practices to be conveniently dismissed as exceptions.” -Barry Goldstein in A Cancer Spreading in the Custody Court System on 16 Sep 2010

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..............................This is another reason why the Battered Mothers Custody Conference is so valuable. At least for that one weekend each year, we are among friends, we can speak the truth, the reality may not be pleasant but at least we can escape the pretend world of the courts and the abusers. It is important for protective mothers to know they are not alone. Other wonderful people are going through the same attacks and being pathologized by unqualified ‘experts.’” -Barry Goldstein in History of the Battered Mothers Custody Conference on 8 Dec 2010

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....... My profile? Intact. Fortunately my own dad was there to stop his fist. ....... Then the courts gave him our baby and finished me off.
PS - To those of you who might think I am nothing but an interfering, critical, histrionic nitwit, let me just say the Supreme Court of Virginia visits my Web site almost every day.

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Yes, Shivani, “sadly Brigitte Deel doesn’t have a facebook.” She has, however, a mother who loves her very much. This is not a secret neighbors at Belmont Country Club should be keeping from her, that is, if she is truly loved by them. I hope the community will lead my daughter to your facebook page.

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A mother won her "greatest fight" by refusing to submit to the judge who tried to abuse her. Click on her video, and as you scroll down my blog, listen for what this non-offending mother told that custody judge who played bully and lost. -Veronique Wyvell

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ADVISORY ... FAIRFAX COURTHOUSE SLAUGHTERHOUSE For Fit Mothers: Virginia judges say a father may hurt the mother of his child, by abusing her, without hurting his chances of gaining custody (mgbb). Judges surveyed for Influences on Judges' Decisions in Child Custody Disputes in the Commonwealth of Virginia further reveal that children over five go to fathers more than they go to mothers when cases go to court (pdf). Pages 4, 6, 7, 20, 21, 23, 24, 29, 30, 38, 39, 40, 41, 53, 55, and 57 in House Document No. 24, A 2001 Report of The Supreme Court of Virginia Office of The Executive Secretary to The Governor and The General Assembly of Virginia, are especially relevant to the current trend of awarding custody of children to fathers who are abusive, controlling, manipulative, violent men, narcissists, and sociopaths (oes). {According to a 1996 report by the Am. Psychological Assoc., fathers who batter mothers are twice as likely as non-violent men to seek sole custody of children (apa).}

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WARNING ... VIRGINIA COURTHOUSES SLAUGHTERHOUSES For Fit Mothers: In Virginia, rulings by custody judges may result in destitution (even bankruptcy) and childlessness for women who are fit mothers leaving an abusive man and escaping a violent relationship. “Custody transfers to abusive men are rare” and other myths as reported by the American Bar Association Commission on Domestic Violence (ABA Ten Myths, 2006), the Leadership Council on Child Abuse and Interpersonal Violence (LC Six Myths, 2006), and the National Council of Juvenile and Family Court Judges Family Violence Department (NCJFCJ Seven Myths, 2003) -- though still rumored by the public -- contribute to the butchering of fit mothers everyday by our state bench. All fit mothers hoping to preserve their resources and their parenthoods should understand those misconceptions now officially recognized -- though still rejected by the public -- about the well-studied connection between “intimate partner violence” and “child custody litigation” before entering any courtroom of our Commonwealth of Virginia. If you are a fit mother who was slaughtered by a state judge in a disputed case involving custody of a child you produced with an abusive and violent man, please join your sisters each fall in Richmond for JUDICIAL INTERVIEWS. {I will post 2010 event date, time, place and relevant vitals here by mid November, or parents may contact Mary Kate Felch directly. -Veronique W. on 10.5.10} ALL MAULED MOMS FROM ALL ACROSS VIRGINIA SHOULD PLAN TO BE IN HOUSE ROOM C OF THE GENERAL ASSEMBLY BUILDING IN DOWNTOWN RICHMOND FOR 'JUDICIAL INTERVIEWS OF INCUMBENTS 2010' ON DECEMBER 10 ALL DAY LONG (Starts at 8:30AM). {I will post here the link for the Felch Agenda & Interview Schedule. -V. Wyvell on 10.22.10} SCHEDULE FOR DEC. 2010 'JUDICIAL INTERVIEWS' NOW VIEWABLE BY CLICKING HERE. Your offending judge just might be up for re-appointment this year! Look for that judge's name in this list. If you have something to say about the performances of Judges Bonnie Davis, Gerald Daltan and Esther Wiggins-Lyles, please join your sisters in saying it. Sign up with Mary Kate Felch today! Several aggrieved moms are booked to speak already! MEETING INFO BY CLICKING HERE (Scroll Down to "12/10/10 8:30 a.m.").

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>>>>>>> 2008 SPEECH that took out Judge Finch & 2009 SPEECH that took down Judge Wiggins-Lyles.

>>>>>>>> YOUR VOICE CAN MATTER TOO IN DEC 2010!


>>>> No custody judge in Virginia should expect to get away with behaving like a bully. PERIOD.

>>>>>>>> A Citizen Flyer for mass distribution: HELP PROMOTE JII 2011.

A Washington Post article . . . Judge Go Bye Bye 2009 . . . please read it!

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Story by Tom Jackman,
NORTHERN VIRGINIA JUDGE CONFRONTED BY LOCAL MOMS OUSTED

A mother's testimony...took out a Fairfax County circuit judge. The same court had denied her motions to disqualify Zuckerman and remove him from her case.

Va. Judge Selection Process Criticized: Group Challenges Lack of Public Input >>> By Tom Jackman >>> Washington Post Staff Writer >>> Monday, March 2, 2009 >>> www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2009/03/01/AR2009030101882.html (www.box.com/s/y2dr45g485e3tm61nn0y)

Our carnivalesque judicial selection process, the clowning around starts here . . .

Our carnivalesque judicial selection process, the clowning around starts here . . .
House Room C of the General Assembly Building in Richmond, on December 10, 2010, in the moments before it would begin to fill eventually to near capacity with concerned citizens from all over Virginia; many came armed with speeches to oppose the re-appointment of incumbent judges to another term for this year’s “Judicial Interviews.” {Missed it Friday? Don’t fret, there’s always next year. Your offending judge just might be up for re-appointment in Dec. of 2011. So look for that judge’s name in this preliminary list (which is subject to change as judges advance to another court, retire, resign, die or are fired because people just like YOU got involved in this effort to remove unfit, corrupt or otherwise disabled judges), and if you see your judge listed, know that it's not too soon for you to begin to prepare for “Judicial Interviews of Incumbents 2011”: Richard Wallerstein, 7/1/2006-6/30/2012; Glenn Clayton, 10/1/2006-9/30/2012; Frank Somerville, 7/1/2006-6/30/2012; James Almand, 2/1/2004-1/31/2012… Continues on Facebook}

A circus, with our GA apt to certify sub-judges, circuit chiefs do a lot of the hiring

…How can this happen? Why do judges in Virginia issue court orders that can make an innocent-enough person feel like the victim of a “hate crime” when some sensibly administered justice would have sufficed? This can happen to people in Virginia because the judicial selection and re-selection process is deformed and has created a judiciary that is inbred which is producing even greater deformity as judicial rulings deteriorate and as judicial respect--for the dignity and the resources of litigants--decline.... ...Furthermore, I have noticed, when a judge advances to another court in mid-term, his or her interview is postponed, that is, delayed by the length of the term associated with that particular court (minus the number of years remaining in the old term): 6 years for district court, 8 for circuit, 8 for appeals and 12 for supreme. With the Judicial Performance Evaluation (JPE) program now cancelled by decision of the 2009 legislative session, “interviews,” known officially as “Judicial Interviews of Incumbents,” is the only screening mechanism in place, acting to protect citizen-consumers of legal services from defective judges. The event is annual and it really is Virginia’s ultimate oversight agency for the judiciary because even “Judicial Inquiry and Review Commission” board members must submit to “interviews.” But, and especially since most members of the general public do not go to “interviews,” it is mostly a “rubber-stamp affair.” Citizens, tragically, are skipping “interviews” because it is such a poorly promoted event, and sitting judges, apparently, are skipping “interviews” because jurists promoted before the end of their term slip through such a poorly designed system for screening them.... Our Carnivalesque Judicial Selection Process, read more, http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2009/05/referendumtime-dumb-disgusting-outright.html


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FOREWORD by Robin Yeamans, Esq. }find her on facebook

I never refer to a case as "high conflict." When you dig down to the bottom of a case labeled "high conflict," you find domestic violence and abuse. The two sides are not identically culpable. -R.Y.
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"If so, what does that relationship look like?" -Eric Holder*

"If so, what does that relationship look like?" -Eric Holder*
*Former judge on the Superior Court of the District of Columbia (Photograph clickable)

Commentary "A" by the APA Public Interest Directorate in a 1998 Report of the American Psychological Association Presidential Task Force On Violence And The Family on ISSUES AND DILEMMAS IN FAMILY VIOLENCE beginning WHEN PARENTS SEPARATE AFTER AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP, SHOULDN'T FATHERS HAVE AS MUCH RIGHT AS MOTHERS TO BE GRANTED PHYSICAL CUSTODY OF AND VISITATION RIGHTS WITH THEIR CHILDREN? and Commentary "B" by the American Judges Association in a 2002 Court Review Special Issue on DOMESTIC VIOLENCE beginning THE PARENTING OF MEN WHO BATTER

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Focus of January 2011 BMCC VIII will be to connect mothers

Focus of January 2011 BMCC VIII will be to connect mothers
Register online for Dr. Hannah's next conference by going to BatteredMothersCustodyConference.org (Click announcement)

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I personally receive calls, e-mails, and letters from protective mothers all over this country, as well as overseas, begging for help with their cases. The overriding theme is that their abusive ex-partner already has won or is about to "win" custody of their children. Ladies, think this could never happen to YOU? All you need to do is have a biological child with someone who is psychopathic, narcissistic, abusive, or otherwise sick enough to be willing--in his efforts to harm you--to cause massive harm to your child, as well. His task is simple enough; all he has to do is lie and manipulate the court system, making wild claims that you are a "fabricator," "crazy," "addicted," or an "alienator." He can then pay off all the court agents who are willing to do his bidding and take everything he says as the gospel truth, in exchange for his right to exercise power, control, and abuse over you and your kids until they reach majority age. The family court system, as it seems to currently operate, amounts to little more than a black market that gives children and babies to the highest bidder. The ONLY thing keeping this Potemkin village-like fiasco going in our family courts is the secrecy that cloaks the misdeeds. We need a deeply serious and impartial investigation of the family court systems of all 50 states, conducted by authorities with the will and the power to massively reform this corrupt machine. See http://www.batteredmotherscustodyconference.org/ for additional documentation about the family court fiasco. -Dr. Mo Therese Hannah, BMCC Chair and Protective Mothers Advocate, in public comment two years ago, in 2008

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Court appointees make profit by placing children in harm’s way. -Dr. Phil Show

Court appointees make profit by placing children in harm’s way. -Dr. Phil Show
Dr. Phil is now talking about it. If you missed the original airing of “Crisis in Family Court” on 14 April 2010, catch a rerun by checking his website regularly for its list of future shows. (“Crisis in Family Court” was repeated recently on August 14 and August 18; DVDs and transcripts can be ordered at DrPhil.com)

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Dr. Phil is looking for victims of “parental alienation” for an upcoming show: “Victim of Parental Alienation?” (“Do you believe that your ex-spouse, or soon-to-be ex-spouse, is preventing you from seeing your child? Do you believe that your ex is currently committing ‘parental alienation’ by making it very difficult OR preventing you from seeing your son or daughter? If you would like Dr. Phil’s help in mediating this issue and you’re also willing to appear on TV, please e-mail your story.”) Upcoming show topics also include: “Ex-Spouse Causing Your Child To Hate You?” (“Are you separated or recently divorced and you fear that your ex-spouse is alienating you from your child? Have you noticed a negative change in your child’s attitude and behavior towards you? Do you feel that your ex-spouse is the reason why your child is mistreating or ignoring you? If you would like Dr. Phil’s help in mediating this issue and you’re also willing to appear on TV, please e-mail your story.”) and “Who’s Right???” (“Is there a person in your life that blames you for everything? Do you want them to accept responsibility and end this blame game? Is someone in your life not admitting the harm they've caused you? Do they refuse to admit they are wrong? If so and YOU ARE WILLING TO APPEAR ON THE SHOW, tell us your story.”) -VW on 9.7.10

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Watch Kathleen Russell on Dr. Phil's "Crisis in Family Court"

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Q: What does the Zuckerman say? A: “Quack! Quack!”

Q: What does the Zuckerman say? A: “Quack! Quack!”
Court appointee William B. Zuckerman, Ph.D., telephoned a leader of the fathers’ rights group in Virginia and offered to help member fathers win custody. DR. ZUCKERMAN DIDN’T KNOW HE WAS TALKING TO MY FRIEND. William B. Zuckerman, Ph.D., never has telephoned a leader of the mothers’ rights movement in Virginia and never has offered to help member mothers gain custody. -Veronique Wyvell (Click pic)

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“Dear Miss: I came across your website when researching Dr. Zuckerman. As you can see from my signature below, I am an attorney. Opposing counsel is attempting to use Zuckerman to assist her client. I believe he is offering terrible advice which is hurting the family more than helping the situation…” ............ -A D.C. lawyer and professor of law at GW, in a spring 2010 message for Miss Veronique Wyvell

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Virginia judges have been forcing parents to watch SPARE THE CHILD since 2000 (video). The Virginia Supreme Court gave Dr. Zuckerman a lead role in the film (letter).

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Sandra Havrilak: She’ll spit on justice even if it means spitting on our children

Sandra Havrilak: She’ll spit on justice even if it means spitting on our children
Find “Support the Disbarment of Sandra Havrilak” on facebook and join the cause. ~Veronique Wyvell {Havrilak lies, Havrilak cheats, Havrilak steals: http://www.box.net/shared/4lv1tb8rz8 for “The Letters 5” (or click image) and http://mommygobyebye-virginia.blogspot.com/2007/12/mark-e-rubin-senior-advisor-to-governor.html for “MARK E. RUBIN SENIOR ADVISOR TO THE GOVERNOR: ‘I can assure you that this information will be considered if Ms. Havrilak’s name comes up…’” (a response from Richmond)}

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Batterers, Barratry, Bedlam and Boycotts

}THE JUDGE AS BATTERER (NO WONDER THAT, MORE THAN EVER BEFORE, WOMEN IN DOMESTIC VIOLENCE CASES EVERYWHERE ARE ON THE RUN, BOLTING WITH THEIR CHILDREN, IN A GLOBAL BACKLASH AGAINST BARRATRY AND A WORLDWIDE BOYCOTT OF THE BENCH): A SAMPLING OF 25 YEARS OF SUPPORTING LITERATURE [Click book cover for an ever growing list of authorities on The Bedlam]

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Family courts, endangering children and punishing women

Family courts, endangering children and punishing women
Order online Dr. Hannah's new collection (with Mr. Goldstein) at CivicResearchInstitute.com

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Mother's Day 2010 at the White House

Peaceful Silent Vigil at The White House in Washington DC on 9 May 2010 Mother’s Day. "A cottage industry of mental health professionals and attorneys with cozy relationships with family court judges routinely bankrupt families with enormous court-ordered fees and often recommend that children be placed with their sexually or physically abusive fathers. Family court judges frequently ignore evidence of abuse, refuse to hear direct testimony from the children, and rubberstamp their cronies’ recommendations. Nurturing mothers are forced to pay costly fees to attend supervised visits with the children they raised, watching helplessly as their children continue to report abuse by their abusers to uncaring visitation monitors. Mothers who speak out about system failure often face judicial retaliation and lose what little time they have with their children. The unregulated cottage industry churns away, generating hundreds of thousands of dollars in fees to experts, while some of the worst cases settle only when the children turn 18. This is a national epidemic that is destroying families across America." (Photograph clickable)

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See the album at Facebook’s Center for Judicial Excellence: “Justice, Accountability, Children's Safety”

"Stop Court Crimes!"

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Sarah, in the 2005 PBS documentary Virginia is refusing to air*

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*"I'm, like, what kind of a person would take you away from your mom?" ... {Regarding little Sarah’s relegation to “day care”: Custody judges in Virginia routinely strip mostly stay-at-home mothers of their babies, toddlers, preschoolers and young children for commitment to full-time and year-long (summers included) placement in day care centers, that is, institutional care by total strangers, or for confinement with live-in and live-out nannies hired by abusive fathers; my own Brigitte was 2 when Judge Vieregg took her out of “mommy care” and gave her to a working couple and commercial care.} ~Veronique Wyvell~ Or, www.box.com/shared/ij7bvyuu7m

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The Custody Judge, A "Key Abuse Collaborator"

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. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . J U S T I C E . . W A N T E D . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . My custody order is incoherent. With one document the judge relies on the report and recommendation of a court appointee and removes and replaces the court appointee, a forensic evaluator (the same Child-Sparing screwball and father-puppet that from a witness stand had barked "She doesn't blink! Most people blink!" in testimony on the impact of my eyelid movements on my mothering skills) refusing for 12 years to let me see my raw psychological test data. I'm seeking an attorney who will agree this circuit ruling is not logical and help me suspend/annul the order. I'm not asking for a trial, just a motion to restore the JDR decision of May 1999, our only true & valid order. Veronique Wyvell (tel 703.748.0072), from February 1999 to Oct. 2015, victim of judicial battery, parental persecution, gang rape, highway robbery and general bullshit in the courts of the Commonwealth of Virginia, County of "Fair-facts"

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My incoherent custody order was decided in the wrong court: JUSTICE WANTED PART II. In a formal complaint for the Judicial Inquiry and Review Commission, I wrote: Why was my case left to linger in the Circuit Court of Fairfax County? Why did my case not go back to the Fairfax Juvenile & Domestic Relations District Court following entry (date 12/06/2000) of the final order by Judge Vieregg on an appeal from there? Instead, circuit judges allowed subsequent motions and hearings and even a second custody trial all in circuit court, the improper court. Between 2000 and 2004, Deel v. Wyvell passed through the hands of NINE different jurists on the Fairfax circuit bench: Judges Bellows, Havrilak, Keith, Klein, Ney, Roush, Smith, Thacher and Vieregg. All 9 had opportunity but would fail to execute Section 16.1-297 of the Code of Virginia. -V. Wyvell* [Enclosures: Custody Orders dated 07/14/99, 12/06/00, and 11/30/01] *Financial Damages suffered by Veronique Wyvell: $ 53,000.00

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No oversight, no accountability, no justice

No oversight, no accountability, no justice
"Fairfax County Circuit Court Judge Arthur B. Vieregg Unimpressed by Testimony of Preacher for United States Supreme Court Chief Justice William H. Rehnquist, My Boss the Reverend Dr. George W. Evans" is the title of one of my favorite mommy go bye bye blog postings. Justice Rehnquist attended Sunday services at the church that employed me. He liked our preacher. The preacher liked me. Judge Vieregg, however, didn't care much for either one of us.

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Mothers with a problematic legal case involving Vieregg, the circuit judge, and Zuckerman, the forensic psychologist, should contact me: The evidence has suggested Judge Arthur B. Vieregg and Dr. William B. Zuckerman may have owned real estate together or shared the same residential or mailing address; Vieregg appointed Zuckerman to conduct the Deel/Wyvell custody evaluation. The experience of your Mommy Go Bye Bye blogger has been that these two clowns are nothing more than, and her wish is for readers to take this quite literally, a couple of m----- f------ crooks. (Mr. Vieregg is now with McCammon.)

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THE IMPORTANT NUMBERS TO JUDGE VIEREGG AND DR. ZUCKERMAN HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH MY DAUGHTER’S AGE. Very early in Deel v. Wyvell the question would change from “Where’s the mistake?” to “Who’s making the most mistakes?” Vieregg sat for 3 big trials in 18 mos., in the matter of Brigitte, ages 2-3.

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How do we stop bad judges in Virginia? We start by clicking this poster

How do we stop bad judges in Virginia? We start by clicking this poster
This poster is linked to the community page on Facebook where citizens can retrieve a list naming the judges slated for re-appointment interviews in December 2011 and instructions for signing up to speak to stop the re-appointment of unfit and corrupt judges in Virginia: http://www.facebook.com/pages/Judicial-Interviews-of-Incumbents-2010-Richmond-Virginia/138253656230064. It depicts William B. Zuckerman, Ph.D., clinical psychologist (license no. 0810001150), child custody evaluator and known “paid whore” in the custody courts of the Commonwealth of Virginia. Dr. Zuckerman’s recommendations almost killed my 2-year-old because a judge (Arthur B. Vieregg) followed them. The judge retired in 2007. A FACEBOOK ACCOUNT IS NOT REQUIRED TO ACCESS THE JII COMMUNITY PAGE ON FACEBOOK.

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Name her team and win $100!

[Contest open 9.1.10] WIN $100! I want to offer the first individual who sends me an email containing the name of my daughter’s soccer team (fall 2010) a one hundred dollar bill. Collect your one hundred dollar bill simply by meeting me at her next game. Here she is pictured playing for the Loudoun Tigers All Stars last fall. This message was updated on September 1, 2010, by Veronique Wyvell

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"If you can give up a son, you can give back a daughter." -Miss Wyvell*

"If you can give up a son, you can give back a daughter." -Miss Wyvell*
*Click this photograph for the short story of Deel addiction to hate, jealousy, vengeance, rage, coercive control, manipulation and destruction of families (Next court date in CBOE case is August 19th in Leesburg)

Why won't they let my daughter go?

___________________________________ While in her mid-twenties, Lisa Ferry abandons her baby son in a catholic convent. While in his mid-thirties, Troy Deel abandons his baby son in an adoption scam. They terminate their parental rights to firstborns. Now both in their fifties, Troy and Lisa Deel are obsessed with forcing me out of the life of my child. Why won't they let my daughter go? ~Veronique Wyvell, mother of Brigitte, young victim of lawsuit abuse and foul play in the custody courts of Virginia (or ... The Deels think it’s ok to push custody papers that are not in order … They could be pushing their luck instead)

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Litigation as Psycho-Therapy, Litigation as Murder-Substitute

Litigation as Psycho-Therapy, Litigation as Murder-Substitute
‘WARDING OFF PSYCHIC COLLAPSE’ and ‘HOLDING OFF HATEFUL AND MURDEROUS WISHES’ with CUSTODY WARS: Ethicist and author Michael B. Donner PhD believes, in “tearing the child apart,” lawsuit abusing “parents remain both victim and victimizers in their own internal struggle.” (I believe Dr. Donner is one who “gets it,” and the bad custody judge is one who “looks the other way.” -Veronique Wyvell RN) Photograph clickable

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“The reality is that the ‘Good Dads’ settle these matters amicably.” -CP*

“The reality is that the ‘Good Dads’ settle these matters amicably.” -CP*
*Commentary by Charles Pragnell in “Sociopath Fathers : The ‘Charming’ Killers” ending with “It is to be hoped that society and Courts are able to more easily identify such sociopaths in the future and thereby provide the necessary protections for children and their mothers.” (Photograph clickable)

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A court ruling that contradicts the facts of the case . . .

A court ruling that contradicts the facts of the case . . .
...and recognizes eye-blinking as a relevant measurement of fitness to parent.

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Domestic Violence by Proxy: Why Terrorist Tactics Employed by Batterers Are Not "PAS" ... ~ The Leadership Council on Child Abuse & Interpersonal Violence 2009 ~

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“troy deel monster”*

“troy deel monster”*
*Search words googled by a visitor of this blog from IP address 75.75.106 on 22 June 2010

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Batterers such as Troy Deel are unlikely to share parenting*

Batterers such as Troy Deel are unlikely to share parenting*
*http://www.leadershipcouncil.org/docs/Truth_Commission_2007.pdf (Page 6/14)

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GOOD DADS DON’T ACT LIKE TROY DEEL

GOOD DADS DON’T ACT LIKE TROY DEEL
Brigitte and Mom on 14 July 2010 at the Rivercrest Swim Meet

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GOOD DADS DON’T ACT LIKE TROY DEEL Haunted by the truth this chronic trespasser on my motherhood says he will sue in email without subject, without substance Email #1 / Email #2 / Email #3 / Email #4 / Email #5 / Email #6 / Attachments, Aunt Dots

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Photo taken by mom, daughter taken by dad

Photo taken by mom, daughter taken by dad
“Brigitte has a mother who loves her very much,” and after six years of separation, I have a daughter who still loves me, much to the dismay of her disturbed father, Troy Deel. ~Veronique Wyvell on 11.11.2010

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An earlier life in pictures from a collection I call "My Pocketbook Album" . . .

An earlier life in pictures from a collection I call "My Pocketbook Album" . . .
…The album I regret was missing from my purse on July 14. It usually travels with me, in my purse, on days I go looking for Brigitte. So, Brigitte, if you are reading, click the picture above of us together for your 6th birthday to see “My Pocketbook Album” in pdf since I goofed up and forgot it when I left the house for Rivercrest that day I finally found you. I have many more photos I want to show you of your early life with your mother who has never, never stopped loving you. ~Posted by Veronique Wyvell on 18 Nov. 2010

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Pretend Phone, Pretend Mommy . . .

Pretend Phone, Pretend Mommy . . .
Troy Deel: “Rest assured, I will not be putting Brigitte in the middle of this in the future.” [Father of Brigitte, in a fax to her mother, Oct. 27, 2003]

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Troy Deel used this device to give his women pleasure . . .

Troy Deel used this device to give his women pleasure . . .
...The night I found him using it for the third time on my 15-month-old was our last together under his roof, yet my preference for iced chocolate milk would make me a pervert. The one food item my pregnant body did not reject by vomiting in eight months of hyperemesis gravidarum (complicated by potentially fatal preeclampsia) was labeled “a fetish” by Dr. William Zuckerman in his custody report. Zuckerman’s report would contain no discussion of the vibrator. See transcript of Deel testimony. -VW (Photograph clickable)

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Mother's savings -- not father's salary -- support baby Brigitte (We lived together) . . .

Mother's savings -- not father's salary -- support baby Brigitte (We lived together) . . .
…Dr. Zuckerman would also skip the subject of money in his $16,444.00 custody evaluation of the Deel-Wyvell (no marriage but we lived together) family. See transcript of Deel testimony. -VW (Image clickable)

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"If you're such a great father, why aren't you taking care of your son?" VW

"If you're such a great father, why aren't you taking care of your son?" VW
{Item #26} “Dr. Zuckerman overlooked the parent/child (often mother/child) separation issues and child abandonment issues which pervaded this case and were fundamental to an understanding of the conflict. The separation and abandonment themes are shockingly rampant in the recent history of this family: Troy Deel’s birthmother’s abandonment of him as a newborn when she left him on a stranger’s porch and their subsequent estrangement; Jackie Decker’s abandonment of her foster son and their subsequent estrangement, her foster son is Troy Deel; Troy Deel’s abandonment of his baby son (by Camen Shimer) and their subsequent estrangement; Carmen Shimer’s “kidnapping” of Troy Deel’s baby son and their subsequent estrangement from Troy Deel; Carmen Shimer’s father’s kidnapping of her from her mother and Carmen’s subsequent estrangement from her father (Carmen was reunited with her mother after 5 years of separation); finally, Lisa Ferry’s (Troy Deel’s current wife) abandonment of her newborn son in a convent after hiding there for the duration of her pregnancy and their subsequent estrangement. Dr. Zuckerman could not have been more negligent in his duty as a trained and experienced psychologist to identify and address unresolved conflict and to stop the monster that so much accumulated resentment has become as evidenced by the father’s obsessive drive to obliterate through litigation the mother (Veronique Wyvell) from their own daughter’s life. After all, the work of psychology is to explore human issues.” Item #26 above and Item #11 below were taken from the “Veronique Wyvell 34-Point/6-Page Official Statement of Heinous Behaviors and Atrocious Actions by Court Appointed Psychological Evaluator William Zuckerman in Troy Deel v. Veronique Wyvell, a Child Custody Evaluation” compiled on February 10, 2002 (and on file with VW). {Item #11} “At the time of the evaluation, Dr. Zuckerman’s daughters were refusing to speak with him because they sided with their mother whom he was divorcing. His troubled personal life should have ethically precluded him from evaluating custody disputes for others.”

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Troy Deel and court reporter scheme to sell Veronique rigged records . . .

Troy Deel and court reporter scheme to sell Veronique rigged records . . .
…Dastardly dad Troy Deel maintains a DOD/DSS Top Secret Level Personnel Security Clearance despite the premise that “[w]hen an individual’s life history shows evidence of unreliability or untrustworthiness, questions arise whether the individual can be relied on and trusted to exercise the responsibility necessary for working in a secure environment where protection of classified information is paramount,” however, clinical psychologist and forensic evaluator William Zuckerman would disregard all of my information and evidence in reference to Deel’s doctored court records by omitting every bit of that information and evidence from his custody report (http://www.dss.mil/disco/ps_faqs.html is source of quoted text). See transcript of Wyvell testimony and Wyvell letter to the head of the Court Reporters Association. -VW

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Troy Deel Sails Under False Colors

Troy Deel Sails Under False Colors
By order of the JDR court, I had full physical custody of Brigitte when Troy Deel registered her at Winwood; he had incomplete legal custody only. It is time for Troy “I’LL DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO GET WHAT I WANT!” Deel to stop impersonating ME, Brigitte’s Right and Proper parent since the Fair and Square Judge Carr decision of May 1999, by pushing for all to see custody papers that are not in order, or maybe it is time for Troy “I’LL DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO GET WHAT I WANT!” Deel to start moving to confirm the Incoherent, Unintelligible, Repugnant, and Completely Fraudulent Judge Vieregg decision of Nov. 2001. ~The devoted mother of a young victim of lawsuit abuse & foul play in the custody courts of Virginia~

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He never wanted me to have her. He wanted me to never know her. ~VW

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Batterers, Barratry, Bedlam and Boycotts

}THE JUDGE AS BATTERER (NO WONDER THAT, MORE THAN EVER BEFORE, WOMEN IN DOMESTIC VIOLENCE CASES EVERYWHERE ARE ON THE RUN, BOLTING WITH THEIR CHILDREN, IN A GLOBAL BACKLASH AGAINST BARRATRY AND A WORLDWIDE BOYCOTT OF THE BENCH): A SAMPLING OF 25 YEARS OF SUPPORTING LITERATURE [Click book cover for an ever growing list of authorities on The Bedlam]

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Available April 2010

“Women trapped in relationships with abusers come to expect horrendous misbehavior from their partners. What they cannot fathom is the maddening reinforcement commonly provided to abusive men by the justice system and the public at large. . . . That key abuse collaborator is the custody judge. Of all of the actors in a battered woman’s life, none wield more power over her children and financial future. It is beyond infuriating when women discover that their custody judges lack understanding of DV and are colluding with abusers to take away women’s financial resources and, even worse, their children.” --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- An excerpt from Why Do Judges Do That? by Judge Mike Brigner --------- in DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, ABUSE, AND CHILD CUSTODY Legal Strategies and Policy Issues by Editors Mo Therese Hannah PhD and Barry Goldstein JD* -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Order Now

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*Family courts, endangering children and punishing women

*Family courts, endangering children and punishing women
Order online Dr. Hannah's new collection by going to CivicResearchInstitute.com (Click image)

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“There is a crisis in the custody court system, which has resulted in thousands of children being sent to live with abusers while safe, protective parents, primarily mothers, are denied any meaningful relationship with their children. The court system has failed to respond appropriately to domestic violence and child abuse cases involving custody. The Commission found many common errors made by the courts and the professionals they rely upon which contribute to these tragedies.”

“The common theme that emerged from the testimony is that there is a widespread problem of abusive parents being granted custody of children and protective parents having their custody limited or denied, and/or being otherwise punished.”

“The situation of family courts endangering children and punishing women must be exposed in the media. State and national policymakers in all three branches of government and other allies must be advised of the problem of family courts placing children in the unsupervised custody of abusive parents, and be told that this is happening with alarming frequency.”

-Dr. Mo Therese Hannah, BMCC Chair and Truth Commission Coordinator, in report findings/solutions four years ago, in 2007

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Remember them in November

Click poster for Marsden Mute (nor did I ever hear back from Senators Howell and Cuccinelli and Delegate Valentine). -Veronique, Mother of Brigitte VIRGINIANS for the REPEAL of the 'BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILD' STANDARD

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Thursday, November 19, 2009

Bill Zuckerman backstabbing billing strategy suggests strange and solid judicial infatuation with this crooked PhD; some say he does it “all the time”

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...Then, dear mothers, after ridiculing you, Bill Zuckerman might also trick you out of more of your money with the strategy that was explained to the American Psychological Association Ethics Office several years ago in my letter for them.
(This short post is a continuation of the footnote from,

HEY ABUSIVE FATHERS! Lookin' for the best PARENTECTOMY
FACILITATOR, the best PSYCHOLOGICAL SURGEON and the
best PARENTAL ALIENATOR in Va.? Let me help
.)

Here is an excerpt from that letter:

It is my opinion APA member William Zuckerman, Ph.D., of 8987 Cotswold Drive, Burke, Virginia 22015, Tel 703.764.0700, did a very indecent thing when he complained to Fairfax Circuit Court Judge Arthur Vieregg he wanted several thousand dollars more in professional fees. “He does that all the time,” Michelle Eabon, Ph.D., of 11244 Waples Mill Road, Suite G-1, Fairfax, Virginia 22030, Tel 703.691.4204, told me. Attorney Michael Kevin Murphy, of 10560 Main Street, Penthouse 15, Fairfax, Virginia 22030, Tel 703.385.9330, concurred. The same judge who appointed Dr. Zuckerman in February 2000 to conduct a custody evaluation for my legal case approved in September 2000 the overcharge of $3800.00 demanded by the psychologist [in open court, from the witness stand, and on the record]. Dr. Zuckerman never warned me about a surcharge during an office visit or with a letter or in a phone call. The evaluation with home visits would cost $10,000.00 to $12,000.00 he explained in our first meeting. But Dr. Zuckerman collected $16,400.00+ for his involvement with my case. He never bothered to do home visits, and his recommendations almost killed
my two-year-old ...


Judge Arthur Vieregg would force me to fork over nearly $6600.oo to cover 40% of Zuckerman's forged fees. The father was ordered to pay the remaining 60% in counterfeit charges.

The APA Ethics Office dismissed my complaint about PhD William "Bill" Zuckerman's perverted billing practices and procedures. So it is easy for me to presume this crooked court appointee is still tricking mothers, and fathers, out of their money, even today.

More from REGARDING ZUCKERMAN: Table of Contents


~Posted by VW

PS - Heard of this busted bribe judge?: "Justice Gerald P. Garson of Brooklyn was granted parole on Tuesday, 25 months after he began serving a three-to-10 year term for bribery and two related counts..." More at,
http://www.judicialaccountability.org/articles/bribejudgebustedclerktrial.htm

Thursday, November 5, 2009

DR. PHIL "CRISIS IN FAMILY COURT" AIRS 14 APRIL 2010 / Special guest Katie Tagle mother treated like a piece of trash by Calif. Judge Robert Lemkau...


“They would both still be here if that judge would’ve just listened to me.”
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-Katie Tagle
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No one wants to wind up in family court, but with over 50 percent of marriages ending in divorce, it’s a familiar place for thousands of parents. Dr. Phil shines a light on the American family court system and how often it fails its citizens.

Plus, are court appointees profiting off of fractured families?

Special guests include:

  • James Hosking }ElectHosking.org
  • Kathleen Russell }CenterForJudicialExcellence.org
  • Katie Tagle }HiDesertStar.com
  • Alan Boinus }LemkauMustGo.com
  • Barbara Kauffman }Lawyers.com

  • Read it!
    DEADLY DADS
    by Belinda Morris
    Winter 2009

    [This post was first published on 14 April 2010]

    THE AMERICAN CUSTODY JUDGE TOO OFTEN A COLLABORATOR OF ABUSE AND CALLOUS MONSTER CAPABLE OF 'MOTHER MASSACRE' The CV Scandal Case of Linda Marie Sacks

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    UPDATE 19 APR 10:
    Linda Marie Sacks, an Ormond Beach mother, arrived this morning at the City Island Courthouse in Daytona Beach for a scheduled hearing (Case 2004-30312 FMCI) asking for unsupervised visitations and total contact with her daughters, ages 13 and 15. But Volusia County Family Court Judge Shawn L. Briese declined to hold the hearing, which had been on the trial court schedule for six months, and demanded instead that Sacks submit to a deposition by the opposing counsel during the scheduled hearing time. Sacks filed for divorce in 2004 after her daughters began acting out sexually ... In April 2007 Judge Briese ruled that the child lied, gave the father sole physical custody of the daughters and placed the mother on supervised visitation. In the last three years, Sacks has had only 63 hours with her daughters at the The Family Tree House Visitation Center in Daytona Beach ...
    [ Shawn Briese as Boy Scout: Circuit judge, a real trooper, earns Distinguished Eagle Scout Award ]

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    Custody Crisis: Why Moms Are Punished in Court

    By Gina Kaysen Fernandes
    MomLogic
    January 19, 2010

    Talk to mothers, divorce lawyers, and child advocates and you'll hear tales of a family court system that's badly broken.

    To an outsider, Linda Marie Sacks had the perfect life. Her husband was rich, and they lived in a huge home in Daytona Beach, FL, where she spent her days shuttling her girls to school and various activities. Linda Marie describes herself as a "squeaky clean soccer mom" who "lived my life for my children." Behind that façade, Linda Marie says she married a monster -- a man who verbally and emotionally attacked her for years and sexually abused their two young daughters.
    When she finally left him and tried to take her girls with her, she encountered a new monster -- family court. Rather than protecting Linda Marie and her two young daughters from a
    sexual predator, a family court judge denied Linda Marie custody and put her daughters into the hands of their sexually abusive father.
    Talk to mothers, divorce lawyers, and child advocates and you'll hear tales of a family court system that's badly broken. It's one that routinely punishes women for coming forward with allegations of abuse by denying them custody of their children. Instead of protecting children from abusers and predators, the court often gives sole custody to the abusive parent, say child advocates. Mothers who tell judges their children are being molested or beaten are accused of lying and are punished for trying to intervene. Some are thrown in jail for trying to keep their kids from seeing an abusive parent. Women, many of whom have few financial resources at their disposal, are often at the mercy of a court system that is not designed to handle
    domestic violence.
    Linda Marie first suspected something was wrong in 2002 when she received a shocking phone call from a school administrator. Her 7-year-old daughter was acting out sexually, with knowledge beyond her years. A short time later, the Sunday school teacher reported overhearing Linda Marie's daughter saying, "I suck my dad's penis." She received more phone calls from school about her little girl using Barbie dolls to simulate oral sex with a boy in her class. "I was very concerned, these are alarming red flags," said Linda Marie.
    She consulted family therapists who also expressed alarm and concern, but failed to report these claims to an abuse hotline. In one of the therapy sessions, the oldest daughter drew a picture that depicted her father as an erect penis on legs. Linda Marie says she once walked in on her husband wiping her daughters' vaginas in the bathroom before school, "because he told me he wanted them to be fresh." When Linda Marie confronted her husband, he ignored and dismissed the allegations.
    After 11 years of marriage, Linda Marie filed for divorce in 2004. Armed with detailed documentation, she believed the judge would grant her sole
    custody of her two daughters for their protection. "I was sheltered. I didn't know I had stepped into a national crisis in the courts," said Linda Marie, who spent tens of thousands of dollars in a legal battle that ended in the loss of her parental rights. Linda Marie has only seen her children during supervised visits for a total of 54 hours over the past two and a half years. "I'm one of the lucky moms," she said, choking back tears. "Some bonds are severed forever. I'm thankful for my two hours a month."
    Some mothers like Lorraine Tipton of Oconto Falls, WI, have served jail time as the result of contentious custody arraignments. In November, a judge sentenced Lorraine to 30 days behind bars because she didn't force her 11-year-old daughter to follow the court's order to live every other week with her abusive father. "She's terrified of going; she has night terrors and severe anxiety," said Lorraine.
    Her ex, Craig Hensberger, was arrested three times for domestic violence and once for child abuse. His criminal record also includes two DUI arrests, one of which happened while driving with his daughter. The court ordered Hensberger into rehab and demanded "absolute sobriety," but his daughter claims he still drinks excessively when she visits.
    Hensberger admitted in court that he still continues to drink, but the judge punished Lorraine instead for trying to protect her child. "My abuser is continuing his abuse of me and my daughter with the help of the court," said Lorraine, who spent three days locked up until her daughter made the heart-wrenching decision to return to her father's home so her mother could be released from jail. "He can't get to me physically. The only way he knows how to hurt me is to take my child away."
    "What we are seeing amounts to a civil rights crisis," says attorney and legal writer Michael Lesher, who co-authored the book
    From Madness To Mutiny: Why Mothers Are Running from the Family Courts -- and What Can Be Done about It. Many judges and court-appointed guardians act above the law with apparent impunity, he argues.
    "There's no hearing, no evidence, no notice -- they can take your child away from you," Lesher tells momlogic. If a mother raises concerns or openly discusses child abuse in court, she typically ends up being the one under investigation. "Mom is guilty until proven innocent," he says.
    A family court judge with the Los Angeles Superior Court refused momlogic's request for an interview to respond to these allegations.
    Unlike criminal court, family court does not rely on criminal investigators to gather evidence in an alleged child abuse case. Instead, the court appoints family advocates known as "guardian ad litem," or GAL, who are expected to
    investigate the abuse allegations and make their recommendation in the best interest of the child. GALs are sometimes licensed psychologists, social workers, or attorneys who are not necessarily trained in evaluating sexual abuse or domestic violence. They have the judge's ear, and their opinions can alter a child's future. There are no juries and there's no mandate for legal representation. In fact, most women end up representing themselves because they can't afford the attorney fees.
    Most moms don't want to take the case to criminal court because they prefer to keep the matter private. Legal experts contend the evidence in sexual abuse cases isn't typically strong enough to hold up in criminal court to overcome the threshold of "beyond a reasonable doubt." While the bar is set much lower for proving evidence in family court, advocates argue Child Protective Services frequently doesn't want to get involved. "If there's a custody battle going on, CPS won't touch it," says Irene Weiser of the advocacy group
    StopFamilyViolence.org.
    There's no doubt fathers play a critical role in a child's life, and in most cases, are equally loving and capable parents who deserve custody. However, studies find when a wife accuses her husband of abuse, more than half the time, she faces a counter-accusation of "parental alienation syndrome," or PAS. Although PAS is not a medically recognized disorder,
    divorce attorneys often successfully argue that it emerges when a parent brainwashes a child into thinking the other parent is the enemy.
    The psychiatrist Richard Gardner, who first coined the phrase "
    parental alienation syndrome" in 1987, has written more than one hundred articles on the subject, but has offered no scientific data to support his theory. While it's not considered a certifiable medical condition, PAS is widely accepted in the legal community.
    "Parental Alienation unequivocally, categorically exists, and it's a form of child abuse," says author and forensic consultant Dean Tong. While he believes more studies need to be done to validate PAS, "it does exist, anecdotally speaking," he says. As an expert witness, Tong has been called a "fathers' rights prostitute" for his work in court clashes. But he also testifies for mothers who are fighting to appeal unfavorable rulings. For Tong, it's about using forensics to find the truth. "I'm not here to protect guys who are guilty," he says.
    In years past, mothers were typically considered the "protective parent" in custody decisions when courts relied on the "Tender Years Doctrine," which states that children under the age of 13 should live with their mothers. Recently, several courts have ruled that doctrine violated the Equal Protection Clause in the 14th amendment, and replaced it with the "Best Interests of the Children" doctrine. It's a huge victory for the increasingly powerful Fatherhood Movement that contends dads are systematically alienated from their children after a divorce.
    Tong argues the current legal climate continues to put fathers on the receiving end of false allegations. "It's handcuffs first, speak later," said Tong, who experienced that firsthand. In 1985, Tong's ex-wife falsely accused him of sexually abusing his 3-year-old daughter. He spent time in jail and went through "a year of hell" trying to prove his innocence. While Tong was eventually cleared of any wrongdoing, he never regained custody of his kids, and remained under supervised visitation for years. Tong became a self-taught expert on the subject of family rights and abuse accusations. He has written three books, including
    Elusive Innocence: Survival Guide for the Falsely Accused."There's an assumption that maintaining a child's relationship with the father is a good idea -- even if the father is abusive," says Stop Family Violence's Weiser, who believes when the overburdened court system is unable to sort out a custody conflict, it relies on misogyny. She argues there are many judges, GALs, and evaluators who believe that women are inherently vindictive and will lie to get a leg up in a custody battle. "We see it over and over again in family court, where judges or professionals don't believe the violence is occurring," Weiser says.
    "All we have is 'he said, she said.' Who's telling the truth? That's up to the judge," says Tong, who believes the justice system isn't working for either side. "The system is not doing a good job interviewing kids, we're still in the dark ages there," says Tong, who thinks there needs to be more formal education and training for the professionals, including judges who are hearing child custody cases.
    According to the American Bar Association, child abuse allegations in custody disputes are rare -- occurring in only six percent of cases. The majority of those accusations are substantiated. In terms of false allegations, fathers are more likely than mothers to intentionally lie (21 percent, compared to 1.3 percent). In fact, abusive parents are more likely to seek sole custody than nonviolent ones, and are successful about 70 percent of the time.
    After three years of litigation, Linda Marie Sacks says she was no match for her ex-husband's financial resources and powerful connections. "He was buying his way through the courtroom." Despite 10 calls into the abuse hotline by licensed professionals, Linda Marie's ex-husband still claimed she was making false allegations of abuse to alienate his children, and the judge believed him. Linda Marie was kicked out of her home and put on supervised visitation with her two daughters, who are now ages 10 and 12. "The judge legally kidnapped my daughters and won't give them back," she said.
    In some extreme cases, a custody decision will be reversed, which is what happened to Joyce Murphy. The San Diego mother was
    charged with kidnapping after she took her daughter out of state, away from the girl's father, because she believed he was a child molester. The father, Henry Parson, accused Joyce of parental alienation and she lost custody. "Despite my pleas for protection to the police and the DA and the family court representatives, and even psychologists, Mr. Parson was able to convince them and the community at large that he was the victim, and I was just an angry, embittered, divorced woman," explained Joyce.
    Six years later, Parson was caught in the act and pleaded guilty to six counts of child abuse, which included oral sex with a child, molestation, possessing child porn, and using a child to make porn. After Parson received a six-year prison sentence, Joyce told reporters that family court's only good decision in her case was granting her full permanent custody of her daughter after her ex-husband was jailed.
    Lorraine, the Wisconsin mom who was jailed for protecting her daughter, knows her daughter's nightmare will continue for the rest of her childhood. "He's never going to stop, it's never going to end until she's 18." Linda Marie says she's putting every penny towards her legal efforts to win back custody of her daughters. "I will never stop fighting for my girls. I know one day justice will prevail."
    Critics argue that not only is the family court system broken, it was never designed to deal with issues like child custody. The goal is to develop solutions that are in the best interest of the child. "Unfortunately when judges and guardians start thinking of themselves as super government, all sorts of abuses will occur," says attorney and author Lesher.
    Activists are working towards making reforms through legislation. "The heartbreaking challenge is that there's not one quick fix," says Stop Family Violence's Weiser. "This is a war -- it's very ugly, it's bloody, and very bitter," concludes Tong.

    This article can be found at:
    http://www.momlogic.com/2010/01/custody_crisis_why_mothers_are_punished_in_family_court.php

    [This post was originally published on 18 February 2010]

    2010 MOTHER'S DAY at THE WHITE HOUSE The California Protective Parents Association is inviting mothers to protest peacefully on May 9 in Washington DC

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    The California Protective Parents Association [PDF]
    MOTHER'S DAY AT THE WHITE HOUSE [PDF]

    In the somber spirit of the U.S. Suffragettes, the Argentine Mothers of the Disappeared, the Turkish Saturday Mothers, the German Rose Street Women, and most recently, the Liberian Women who stopped a civil war, we are gathering at the White House to ask our President to meet with our delegates and to help stop the systematic removal and oppression of our children by family court.

    Peaceful Silent Vigil at the White House in Washington DC on Sun., May 9, 2010, from 11am until at least 2pm.

    Location TBD. We are requesting a permit for Penn Ave & 14th.

    We will bring white ‘Mothers of Lost Children’ t-shirts, white scarves and handouts. Be sure to bring water bottles, power bars, suntan lotion, dark glasses, umbrella. Reserve hotels soon (unless you travel by night on bus & don’t stay in DC).

    A few suggestions for poster-board signs to bring with you:

    } Children are taken from safe mothers and forced to live with abusers. Why?
    } I gave birth to a beloved daughter: Her batterer has custody.
    } I gave birth to a cherished son: His identified molester has custody.
    } I gave birth to three precious children: Our violator has custody.
    } I fear judicial retaliation: What country IS this? (if a scarf is over your face)
    } Mr. President, please stop the children’s suffering.


    We are compiling 1 page stories into a booklet. If you would like to contribute factual information and quotes, especially words from your children, send them to us. You don’t need to give any identifying information.

    Also, contact us to connect with others in your region who plan to come.

    Come early or stay later in the week to visit your Congress members, if you wish. Just find the name and make an appointment with him/her, or his/her staffer!

    http://www.senate.gov/general/contact_information/senators_cfm.cfm
    https://writerep.house.gov/writerep/welcome.shtml

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    Flyer available in PDF:
    http://www.protectiveparents.com/momsday2010.pdf

    Brochure of the CPPA:
    http://www.protectiveparents.com/brochure.pdf

    Contact the CPPA:
    cppa001@aol.com

    [This post was first published on 16 March 2010]

    BILL MIMS BIG MISTAKE! Newest supreme court justice was never a judge; in state with no judicial selection criteria, appointments reflect 'popularity'

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    Those of us on
    the "GovernorsUpdate" mailing list last night received news of the appointment of Bill Mims to the Virginia Supreme Court, news of another "tremendously" bad choice.

    In a brief statement (pasted below), Governor Bob McDonnell congratulates the former state legislator and interim attorney general "on yet another accomplishment in a life dedicated to serving the citizens of Virginia." This blogger, however, would like to clarify, especially for readers who may be contemplating a case in the Supreme Court of Virginia, that "the accomplished" Mr. Mims has never served the citizens of Virginia as a judge. He comes to the highest court in Virginia with no judicial experience, an event made possible by the fact that the Commonwealth of Virginia has never established formal written judicial selection criteria in a mostly blind judge-hiring process rigged up by the state legislature and sheltered from the citizenry. For example, the McCormick house notice of the Mims interview arrived in my e-mailbox on the morning (at 9:43 a.m. precisely) of the day of the Mims scheduled interview--judicial interviews are conducted in Richmond.

    I live in McLean.

    The senate clerk forwarded no "Notice of Judicial Interviews."

    I've said it before, I'll say it again: Only fools should hope for high caliber judging in such a system.

    ~VW {Thank you for visiting ReferendumTime!}

    The governor's communique...



    Commonwealth of Virginia
    Office of Governor Bob McDonnell


    FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
    March 10, 2010

    Contact: Stacey Johnson
    Phone: (804) 225-4260
    E-mail: Stacey.Johnson@Governor.Virginia.Gov

    Governor Bob McDonnell Congratulates Former Attorney General Bill Mims on Appointment to Virginia Supreme Court

    RICHMOND – Governor Bob McDonnell today issued the following statement regarding the appointment of former Attorney General Bill Mims to the Virginia Supreme Court:

    “Bill is an extraordinary public servant and a longtime personal friend. He has long been one of my closest co-workers in nearly 20 years in public office. I first met Bill when we served together in the Virginia House of Delegates. I later asked him to serve as my Chief Deputy Attorney General when I took office in 2006. Upon my resignation to run for Governor Bill was appointed to serve as Attorney General of Virginia and did so with excellence. We need individuals of Bill’s character and intelligence in public service, and while he may have thought his time serving Virginia was over, today’s appointment is welcome news to all of us who know just how uniquely qualified and decent a person he is. The overwhelming support for Bill’s appointment to the highest court in Virginia is a reflection of the high regard in which he is held by leaders from both parties. Bill will make a tremendous Supreme Court Justice, and I congratulate him on yet another accomplishment in a life dedicated to serving the citizens of Virginia.”

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    [This post was originally published on 11 March 2010]